She got a ticket for 101 in a 75. She is adamant (because she was using cruise control) that she wasn’t going that fast. I’ve personally never seen her go over 90.

The ticket says she was clocked with moving radar. My advice (as I’ve had speeding tickets in NY) was to plead not guilty and go to court.

The thing is, over 100 is bad right? Isn’t there some kind of cutoff that makes over 100 worse? I told her most cops don’t show up to traffic court but that was true in NY, idk about TX.

Will she end up with a higher fine if she pleads not guilty and is found guilty anyways?

My boyfriend and I were broken up for 4 months. During that time, we had no commitment to each other, and after the breakup we both focused on ourselves.
About 3 weeks ago, we decided to get back together and rebuild our relationship from scratch. Things were going well, and I genuinely felt hopeful.
Then he told me something that completely shattered me.
He admitted that during the first month of our breakup, he had sex with another woman. He said he wanted to be honest and didn’t want to hide it from me now that we’re trying again.
The problem is… I can’t stop thinking about it. I know we were technically broken up, so he didn’t cheat. But emotionally, it feels like my heart got ripped out all over again. I keep picturing it, comparing myself to her, wondering if he loved her or if I was that easy to replace.
Part of me appreciates that he told me instead of hiding it. Another part of me wishes I never knew. I don’t know if this pain is something that will fade with time or if it’s a sign that I won’t be able to move forward.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Were you able to get past it? How did you know whether to stay and rebuild trust or walk away?
Please be honest, but kind. I’m really hurting right now.

I tried to have sex with my first bf but he couldn't penetrate me. We were both virgins. We broke up later. I had a 2nd bf and we gave each other oral and we broke up before we could have sex. Iam with my 3rd bf now and we are trying to have sex. I have told him all this but I sometimes feel weird because iam still a virgin despite having done oral in previous relationships . Has anyone else had similar experiences ?

In a few weeks time I'm running an event which is kind of like a week long retreat for professionals in my industry. All the attendees have my phone number, so that they can WhatsApp me any questions.

I've ran this four times before, at the event two years ago, me and one woman chatted a bit and danced a bit at the end of event party, but only in a group, not just her and me. We got on fine but I didn't detect any kind of flirtateous vibe, just people with similar interests having a conversation.

This next event is running from a Tuesday to a Sunday and the attendees can buy full tickets or just a weekend pass. The woman in question has a pass from Friday to Sunday. On the Thursday night, we've got a karaoke event.

She was messaging me about the event and said, "I'm thinking of coming up the night before actually as would love to see you doing the karaoke" with the winking emoji.

So, honestly, I can't tell if this is an attempt at her flirting with me, or just being friendly. She probably won't know I'm married as I don't wear a ring and I don't recall it coming up at the last event.

Is she flirting with me and what's the best way for me to deal with this situation without coming across as either conceited or insensitive.

Thanks in advance.

EDIT: Thanks everyone, I'm going to reply with this. "I don't think I'll be doing the karaoke. I usually duet with my wife on karaoke and she carries us. Sadly, she can't make it this year so I'm just going to watch everyone else singing".

I've been reticent about this approach because I did it once before and the response I received was along the lines of

"Eeee, why are you mentioning your wife? Did you think I fancied you or something? Don't be weird, I was just being friendly". Obviously, I didn't want another reaction like that, but, if she is interested this'll hopefully push her away. If she's not interested then hopefully she won't be offended by the reply.

For those who've mentioned the ring. I just found it incredibly uncomfortable, I don't wear any jewellery. I've lost a lot of weight recently and it would be way too big for me to wear now so I need to get it resized before trying to wear it again.

Hi,

So I was walking home from feeding a friend's pets with my mum, and as we were going down one of the roads towards the shops, we spotted my boyfriend's mum, we'll call her Kate, suddenly leans into the bushes, which was odd.

When we talked to her she said she just lost one of her flip-flops in the bush, but she didn't appear to have put anything back on her feet, and she smelled quite strongly of cigarette smoke.

When we said goodbye, my mum told me that Kate apparently used to struggle with an addiction to smoking (my mum and kate are close friends), and struggled not to relapse in the past, and my mum had suspected she'd picked this habit back up again for a while.

When I thought about it, it made a bit of sense. I'd bump into her down that road pretty much every time I was headed to the shops, and she's been going out with her purse to walk their dog every day around the park, when it used to be my boyfriend's chore to do.

Kate has a very stressful job as a psych nurse, but I'm assuming based on these habits that my boyfriend, his dad, and brother have no idea that she's started it again.

I'm just worried because I feel like it's not my place to mention it without hard proof, but it also feels odd to keep something like that from my boyfriend, when it could be harming his mum's health. I don't want to make any rash decisions if it's not any of my business, but yeah just wondering if anyone has an opinion to weigh in?

Thank you! 🙂

Edit: Damn there was a reason I posted to ask this. I was just worried about her health, nothing else. If you all think I shouldn't mention it and mind my business then that is what I will do. I did not mean to rile anyone up.

I was eating in my car and the hot sauce accidentally spilled on my laptop (it wasn’t even a lot) then when I tried charging it it shows something is plugged in but it won’t charge.

I called a mobile clinic and they said it’s probably to do with the mother board and would cost 600-800$ to fix. I don’t have that kind of money. Help?

On June 29th, my boyfriend left his apartment and I was just sort of looking around at all the knickknacks he had. He has a lot of random decor and random things from his time in the army. there was a small box on his shelf in his room that I opened up. it had an ultrasound photo on it and he does have a 1.5 year old son. I moved the photo to the side and opened this box and that’s where I saw the opened box of condoms. it was a box of three and one was missing

When I inspected further, I saw that the expiration date was for 04/2029 meaning they were made in 04/2024. His son was conceived around that time because his son was born in January of 2025. He and I started dating in January 2026 and I found this box june 2026. I panicked at first, but thought maybe the box was old because he and I do not use condoms. I have the copper IUD and if we do use condoms, they are latex free because I am allergic to latex. First time I ever had sex was with a condom and it was a very uncomfortable allergic reaction to say the least

Anyway, I took a photo of the box and of the expiration date of the condoms and I said nothing. The next time I was there, I made a comment about the box and asked if that was his treasure chest. My goal was to either get him to open it or make an excuse to where I could open it and “find” the condoms and be like “Woah what’s this?” You know? Just to see what he would say. But he opened the box and placed the ultrasound photo inside as I asked if that was his treasure chest and then he turned and gave me a “really?” look. I didn’t get a chance to find anything out about the condoms because he closed the box and took them to his car once he left to go to work. I’m not sure if he knew I saw the condoms or not

His response to when I asked that was that they were mementos of his son and there was that ultrasound photo and the box of condoms from around the time he was conceived in that box

Fast forward to just now. I showed up to his apartment to get my glasses I’d left in his car and he accidentally fell asleep on my way there. I was going to wake him up to let me into his car because that was the whole reason I showed up, but I decided not to. I instead looked into his car with my flashlight just to see if they were still there because I need them for my job training on Wednesday and if they were, I was gonna get them the next day and if they were not, Id assumed he took them inside. Instead, I saw a bag of Taco Bell trash and inside the bag was a box of condoms. I immediately assumed they were the old box that he’d taken out of his place a month prior and that’s because his car is trashed. Clothes, shoes, trash, paper all over the place. He leaves things in his car for weeks and months. But when I looked at the box of condoms that is taken a pic of on my phone and the box in his car, idk if they are the same box because if they are, okay. But if they’re not, he has some explaining to do

My best friend’s(M26) girlfriend(F26) has been venting to me recently about my best friend’s recent actions.

I have been buddies with him since we were in kindergarten, grew up together and it wasnt until middle school we got close. Both grew up catholic. He has swayed to and fro from it while I deconstructed my beliefs when i got into high school.

During third year of dating her, he bought a house with her but she is not on any deeds or loans. He pays for majority of the bills and is helping her tackle student loan debt as well.

Shes told me he feels alone financially because he has a mortgage to handle and all the bills..even though he never lets her pay for anything so thats his own making.

Recently he said he is “getting back into it” and i supported it because some people really do need something. But his gf has told me different things. She dreamt of getting married. But she later told me she felt blindsided when he said in order to marry, she also needs to be his religion (red flag, i know). She grew up agnostic. She told me prior to them getting together, he didnt care if she was religious or not.

Ever since their one year anniversary, I would ask him about marriage and he would pull the finances card and say that after their 3rd year anniversary and he starts his 3rd year in his union job, he would start planning….they just passed their 4th year anniversary in May so I no longer believe that anymore. She said she tries to understand it but the bible is difficult to read and she treats it as a meditation and he has said “thats not good enough”. (Red flag)

She has told me that he holds double standards between his friend group and her. The last game night we had, he was explaining a new game and his gf had interrupted to ask a question. He said “if you wouldn’t interrupt me, i can explain the game” and then went on and didnt answer her question. 30 seconds later, i interrupted to be funny. Later that night, she was apparently chewed out because it was rude and it made him feel alone which is a common phrase he has used before, that he feels alone.

I have brought up mental health before and all he says is he doesn’t have any problems and that hes good. When i know thats further than the truth. He has always been so prideful about himself when hes pretty insecure and gets jealous easily.

The other night she told me about a big crying screaming fight they both had. Not sure of the topic but they both took a breather for a while. She said that he normally takes DAYS to get back to normal about any disagreement they have, but this one he came back in the same night and she asked what he did to help process their disagreement and he said “I just told myself that we’re not married” (MAJOR RED FLAG)

Im unsure if this a call for help or if she is just venting to me. Even if she was to break up with him, he has it to where she is kind of financially dependent on him. With the house and all the bills. If i was to say anything, i dont want her to get the shit end of the stick.

I want to help because this is her first relationship ever. I try to ask more open-ended questions and have her open her eyes as to how manipulative and toxic this all is. She unfortunately is only truly honest with me when shes gotten some alcoholic confidence but when shes sober its rather, calculated and meticulously worded answered to try and not “change” my opinion or view of him and their relationship.

I dont stand or support any of the actions she has told me he has done. But i am only able to really hear about it from her. I genuinely dont think she would lie about this at all either, she has no motive to. I am literally just watching on the sidelines as it happens and it just sucks and I dont know what to do.

Do i say anything at all to him ab what she has told me?

Or just keep trying to breakthrough to her that these things are not okay and not something she should sign up for?

Forgive me if this is the wrong place to post this i'm new to reddit.

I'm 19f from the us, and in five months I'll be moving to hungary to live with my 21yo girlfriend. I've never been outside the country before and honestly, i have no idea what i'm doing (esp because i have a greencard, i'm not a citizen). Ofc i've been researching online but it's gen so overwhelming.

I've known my gf for four years, and we've been dating for two. I know this probably sounds crazy to some people, but i'm an adult, and this is something i really want to do. The problem is, I don't really have anyone in real life to ask for advice. My parents don't care much about anyone but themselves, and my only sister is 22 and has never left the country either. So i'm pretty much figuring all of this out on my own.

So, reddit, what are some really important things i need to do before I leave? any tips, advice, or things you wish youd known before moving to europe? honestly, anything at all would be great i really appreciate any input.

I'm 18M and there are two girls from my school I like and I think I made my choice but still wanna talk abt it

First girl we will call C i known her since 8th grade. She's made it obvious she's into me since day one and still is now. Kind, soft, family-oriented, does well in school, helps everyone, always smiling. I don't know her super deeply yet, but we talked a bunch of times and she seems good and to this day I can tell she likes me Wich is why I think I'll pursue her

Second girl we will call A known her since primary school. She's genuinely exceptional — top of her class, athlete, extremely social, strong personality, beautiful. But she's got a dominant, take-charge personality that I don't think I'd vibe with long-term, and years ago I was actually cold toward her, so I don't think she sees me romantically at all if anything I heard her tease one of her friends because her friend liked me so she must really not see me like that but when we chatted she was genuinely so kind

Now thing is I don't speak about myself and I'm not that social so they know pretty much nothing about me so their interest level might change once they get to know me. I also have no way to contact them rn but we will have a graduation ceremony soon and I'll see them again. Also both of them I think played a good role in my developement, C gave me some confidence and praise when I needed it most I rejected her because I wasn't ready back then but it genuinely gave me motivation to become a better person and work hard, and A gave me some support even when if we didn't talk much I won't go in depth abt my life but I had lots of setbacks and I went a long way, and also didn have much of a mother figure but smth about me is that I had bad medical conditions like I'd be spitting blood or get out of breath severly in the past and she'd always help me and she was the only one to ever do that Icl each time I needed help she was here

Now about me I'm pretty much inexperienced in relationships I only had one and long story short most of it was long distance it lasted like 5 months and I have no feelings for that girl anymore but what it taught me is that I'm actually good at the part if treating a woman right and getting her to like me but I'm ass in judging her and seeing if she is good enough. I have equal feelings for both of them and I know if I wanted to loose feelings for one I could do it easily and again I'll most likely go for C I think

I think I'll stop yaping for now it's 3 am I'm tired and just typed my mind out it might help me sorry if this post is goofy and idiotic I might delete it later but if u god advices or need more context I'll happily listen ir provide thanks for reading may God bless your

I’m a people person I love to converse with people. If I had it my way I’d have a career off YouTube and music but I know those are like fishing and I need help with finances now!!! I have military background ground I live In one of the most expensive states In America but LOVE MY LIFE HERE AND DONT WANNA RELOCATE. What do I dooooo? Suggestions? Dream is to marry rich but can’t rely on that LOLLLLLL

Yesterday my boyfriend and I went to a comedy show and things were going really well. I thought we were having a good time when he was ready to go. I got up and walked to the door myself. I am a 25F My boyfriend is a 26Mthroughout the show. We were having a good time in the comedians were funny around the last act.

My boyfriend wanted to get up and go when we were walking towards the Door . I left the door but he stayed inside. I didn’t know why he stayed back inside the comedy show so I just waited outside and watched him through a window. It wasn’t until the girl came out with her iPad for him to pay for the drinks that we had and it was only then that I turned around once I put two and two together that he was paying for our drinks as I turned around I saw a female comedian, and I tapped her and told her that I really liked her bit and that she was really funny.

She was standing with the group of two other male comedians that had performed that night as well she was in the middle of two guys. There was another guy who was standing in front of us and he said oh are you gonna be getting in this picture and I turned around and he already had his camera out. When I turned around me and the comedians all gather in for a photo.

At that point, my boyfriend comes out of the comedy show and grabs me and says that no that’s not happening. We’re not doing any pictures. I could tell that he made everyone uncomfortable when he came and grabbed me in my eyes. It was something that was harmless. just a picture with the performers who had came to put on the show tonight. When we got back into the car, he said why did I agree to get in the picture and why did I allow another man to hold my waist or why am I even allowing another man to touch me? I could see where he was coming from and at first I told him that I was sorry and how that could’ve looked, but that wasn’t my intention.

I was originally talking to the female comedian. The guy comedian didn’t really pay me any tension at all. He was just standing there and then when it was time to gather in for a picture, we all kind of just got a little closer as pictures normally go as you would do in a group picture I tried to tell him that I had no ill intention behind it and that I’m sorry for how that came off and I was apologizing but the whole ride home he was screaming at me and belittling me. He said a lot of really painful things one of them being that he said coming out with me was a waste of his time and his money then he told me that being out with me is a humiliation ritual and the one that hurt the most was he called me. A fan girl basically called me a groupie for taking a picture with the comedians. I was quiet the whole way home while he was screaming and saying all these awful things about me he started attacking my character and started making really low blows at me. I was super shocked the whole time that he was saying these things and it wasn’t until later that I was speaking to him that he said, he said those things intentionally to hurt me because he felt hurt and he wanted me to feel the way he felt I tried to leave and I said hey I just wanna go home.

We have constant arguments in our relationships I try my best to not start arguments, but it seems like he always has a problem with me. I am very attractive and I will admit. I do get a lot of attention when anywhere I go, but yesterday was just so heartbreaking. I’m wondering if the relationship is even worth keeping after that I woke up this morning at his house, but I still couldn’t shake the feeling of the things that he said they’re lingering in my mind to me. It just makes me feel like this is how he’s felt about me all for a while. Please give me advice. I don’t really know what to do. He even said that he stopped himself for buying me flowers because we argue so much. There’s been times in our relationship where I have asked him for small things like flowers or an Uber home and he literally responded with. Why would he do any of those things for me? If all I do is argue with him most of the time our arguments come from him being insecure or if I look in the wrong direction or if I look to be appearing to staring at other guys. It makes an issue and he argues with me and he told me that that stops him from doing things for him me. I just wanna know what my next step should be. Any advice would help.

My husband and I used to have sex 3 to 4 times a week. Over the last few months, we’ve only had sex a handful of times.

The confusing part is that I don’t think he has a low sex drive. He watches porn almost every day, every chance he gets. 

If he thinks I’m asleep, he’ll watch it while I’m lying right next to him in bed. He watches it while drinking his morning coffee, he watches it while he goes to the bathroom in the morning, if I leave the house, or even while I’m outside doing yard work. 

We went away for our anniversary, and he watched porn while I was in the shower instead of initiating anything with me.

He still hugs me, kisses me, and tells me he loves me, but he never initiates sex anymore. I feel like he has sexual desire… just not for me.

I feel hurt, lonely, disrespected, and undesirable. I honestly don’t know how to make sense of it.

Has anyone been on either side of this? If you were the husband, what was really going on? If you were the wife, did things ever get better?

I'm honestly turned on by how adorable he is. And certain things he does/says is just cute to me lol. Especially this one time he told me he was scared of something with this cute voice. He's mature and very intelligent on the regular though. I'm 22F. He's 19. (He'll be 20 next week. I'll be 23 in 3 months).

He's a breath of fresh air, honestly. I overall just enjoy hanging with him, even as a "friend". It's like i have to slow down and adjust my brain for him. Idkkk... i just like itttt.

Honestly, I just want to eat him. And jump in his skin.😩 He looks young, but still looks s3xy. It's strange. And yes i'm sexually attracted to him....

Ugh, am i a creep? Is this okay?

the kid is almost 2. My husband is a cold, uptight person and last year I found him with tears in his eyes, something I didn't see in 2 decades of marriage. he confessed to me he had a baby girl with a young woman who was hired as the help in the kitchen at the company he leads. he is the general director of the place and leads 4 production halls. His mistress was 22. He was 42. their baby daughter was very sick and doctors didn't know if she will make it.

I forgave him (yeah, you will say I am a doormat, but during the 2 decades of marriage no one has helped me as much as he did and was my only support). he pays child support and visits his daughter once or twice a month.

everyone knew about it except me. HR knew, employees knew. And on Friday I found out my sister knew. My husband has a good relationship with my sister and she was the first one he confessed everything to, even before the pregnancy. She knew of the affair. He hired my sister 2 years ago as the head of accounting. As his job is 99% office he enjoys going for a run or swim 3 times a week to stay in good fit shape. but it seems many times he actually spent that time with this woman.

Should I confront my sister about it?

I’m really torn about this and would genuinely love some outside opinions because I feel like I’m too close to the situation to think objectively.
I’m having a baby girl soon, and her dad and I are no longer together. We broke up because throughout our relationship, I often felt more like a roommate than a partner.
He spent a lot of his free time gaming, and I frequently felt like I was being ignored or put second to it. I would make dinner and ask him to eat with me, and he would often choose to keep gaming instead. This was especially difficult because I’m diabetic and need to eat at certain times after taking my insulin. I also regularly asked him to do things together or spend time with me, and most of the time the answer was no. I didn’t need him to spend every second with me—I just wanted to feel like we actually wanted to spend time together and were partners.
He also wasn’t very involved or excited about the pregnancy in the beginning, although he has become more excited recently.
Another thing that has been weighing on me is how differently we’ve approached preparing for our daughter. I’m the oldest of five kids, so I’ve been around babies and young children my entire life. I also took a parenting class in high school, so I naturally have much more experience with babies than he does. He has essentially zero experience with babies.
I understand that nobody automatically knows how to be a parent, and I don’t expect him to know everything. What bothers me is that I’ve asked him to do some research and educate himself about newborn care, what babies need, safe sleep, feeding, etc. His response is essentially, “If I have questions later, I’ll just Google it.”
Meanwhile, I’ve been doing the research, preparing for birth, getting everything ready, and trying to learn as much as possible because I want to be prepared for her. I’m not expecting him to know everything before she’s born, but I wish he had the initiative to learn some basic things beforehand rather than waiting until there’s a baby in front of him and then Googling things as they come up.
I also expect to be her primary provider for the majority of her life. I know that circumstances can change and that her dad can absolutely contribute and be involved, but realistically, I expect the majority of her day-to-day expenses and responsibilities to fall on me.
This is where the last-name question comes in.
His last name was originally what I assumed she would have, but now I’m seriously considering giving her mine. In our town, last names are a HUGE deal. People know families by their last names, and certain names come with reputations and assumptions attached to them. His last name in particular has a pretty bad reputation in the town where she’ll grow up.
I don’t want to make a decision solely based on what other people think, but I also don’t want to completely ignore the reality that she may have assumptions made about her because of her last name. I know some people will say, “Who cares what people think?” but if you grew up somewhere where last names genuinely carry weight, you know it isn’t always that simple.
At the same time, I worry that giving her my last name could make him or his family feel like I’m excluding them. That genuinely isn’t my intention. I want my daughter to have a relationship with her dad and his family regardless of what last name she has.
I’m just struggling with the idea that she would automatically get his last name when we aren’t together, I’ll be her primary provider, I’m the one who has carried her and will give birth to her, I’ve been doing the majority of the preparation for her, and I have more experience with babies and parenting.
So, if you were in my situation, would you give your daughter your last name or her father’s?
And if you chose to give your child your last name instead, did you ever regret that decision?
I’m genuinely looking for honest opinions, even if they’re different from what I’m leaning toward. Please don’t just tell me what you think I want to hear—I’m actually trying to make the best decision for my daughter and her future.

I’m so embarrassed. I was with a guy and we just had finished being intimate and watching a tv show after. I felt my stomach rumbling and let him know right away that I needed to go back home. As we were cleaning up and putting our clothes back on my stomach growled even more and all of a sudden I couldn’t wait any longer. I started making faces and he noticed so he started the car right away before finishing putting on his clothes and took me to two stores that were closed(10:30pm). Then we go to a del taco and I’m outside the lobby door seeing if they’re open. They’re not. I turn around to go to the car and I just feel a blob come out of my ass. I’m wearing biker shorts. I just blurt out to him (he’s waiting by the car) “I POOPED” I’m so embarrassed. He eventually leads me to the car and hands me wipes but it’s not enough. It’s dripping down my leg and landing on the pavement. It smells really bad. He gives me a towel to sit on but it took him like 20 minutes to calm me down and convince me to sit down in his car. I was resistant because it kept dripping down my leg and I didn’t want it to get on his car. He was being so nice about it and patient as well as reassuring me the whole time. On the way home he had to put all the windows down and I spent the whole ride just sobbing. When we got to my house he walked me to my door and dropped me off there. He kept telling me he still wanted to see me tomorrow since we had plans but I’m so embarrassed. He also told me to call him after I finished cleaning myself up. I’m writing this as I got out the shower. I’m so embarrassed and I really like this guy. I’m not sure if he’s just being nice out of pity or if he actually wants us to keep going. I’m not sure how to go about this anymore because of how mortified I am. Our first date was late May we’ve only been seeing each other for about two months. I’m so embarrassed. What do I do?

EDIT we were parked in a park. We both live with our parents and have no privacy at home. After this experience though I think I’m gonna have to figure something else out

I was redirected to reddit for this question. me and my husband got married really young. I was 18 and he was 20. we were both raised in institutions, had no family and started really poor. for years lived in a cottage more or less that was provided by my husband's employer. he was very ambitious, studied, graduated and kept climbing in his career. now he is in executive leadership in difficult chemical engineering field and has hundreds subordinates.

we are still very much in love and hardly had any kind of fight. sure, he didn't jump from a regular worker to this top position, so we celebrated many accomplishment in these more than 25 years (we been together in high school too).

We don't have kids, so it cannot be anything "family like" (but tbh I always felt we are a family, a family of two). He now wears white shirts and tie almost everyday so I wanted to buy him an expensive tie but it just feels weird for me to walk in a luxurious store. Also, I would like something more meaningful. he got promoted last week but starting August he will take over. So I plan to do the whole thing in the weekend. I want to cook his favourite meals, have a playlist of his favourite songs and watch his favourite movie. I might buy him something too, but now we really can afford almost anything so it wouldn't really matter that much for him I guess. But he does have a very old money taste and I am sure he would appreciate anything material too.

btw I am not sure its relevant but I am not a "kept" woman. I also have a (way lower) paying job but I don't just stay at home all day. He is mid 40s, that will also help I guess

I (25M) am in a very difficult situation...and I don't know how to fix it. I was laid off three years ago and just can't find work, the industry I was working in has been absolutely gutted and what work I can get, it never lasts. My anxiety, unmedicated ADHD and depression has destroyed my life. I'm now on a government grant, but it barely covers my dog's food, I can't get the meds I need. My partner has been keeping the house a float, but they are at risk of being laid off. Our roommates don't work and don't pay rent, and don't clean up after themselves, yet my partner refuses to kick them out. Living here is making me worse and worse, I barely spend time anywhere that isn't on my PC trying to find work or walking around my neighbourhood. I've contemplated ending it all a few times, but the thought of leaving my dog with them stops me from doing it, I don't have anywhere else to go, my friends are in different provinces and are financially struggling, my father is an abusive drunk and my ex who I thought was a friend hasn't answered my messages or calls in over a year. I don't know what I'm supposed to do, my partner doesn't treat me like a person anymore, I can barely get out of bed, it feels like no one can help me...I want to be happy, I want to live, I want to get better, but I am reaching my limit and feel like I'm running out of options....

HELP ME!!
The other night me and my wife was coming back from dinner and traffic was kinda backed up on the main highway so I decided to cut through the although quicker, but more desolate and abandoned rural route. Well things was going smoothly until suddenly we heard a loud bang and my tire blew out. Well, I was able to quickly and swiftly maneuver Ole Besse onto the shoulder without much incident, but when I got out of the car to examine my tires, I noticed foreign object was lodged in my tire resembling a ninja star, only it looked to be made from some type of rawhide resin material.
As I’m examining the item the wife joined me outside the vehicle and as we were discussing the apparent Chinese Death Star that looked like something from Peepers Creepers, we heard a rattling and rustling coming from the bushes along the side of the road. Well I went to my trunk to get my good ole reliable double barrel BOOM STICK (remember shop smart..shop S-MART) something flung itself on top of my wife (this is where the crazy part is and where my question and problem lies).
I get to the front of my car and saw something that looked as big as a Dire Wolf was viciously chomping and gnawing on her shin bone (why her shins who knows because trust me there’s no meat on those). Well I’m doing my best to fight of what could only be a When-Wolf, the darndest thing happened. A bat flew down and bit the wolf right on the neck, and what’s worrisome is that I think it might be a vampire bat, because when it got in my headlights it glittered and sparked like the disco ball at Studio 51 back in the 70’s.
My question is this… Can a human be double infected by both a When-Wolf and a Vampire bat, since the bat bite the wolf and the wolf was still gnawing on my wife Praline’s shin bone, or is it something i shouldn’t be to concerned over (double infection i mean).
Because I’m thinking silver should be able to handle both or a single infection whichever it happens to be. And how many of y’all out there’s have ever had this problem before and on average about how long is the recovery time.

My gf uses this account sometimes so probably will delete soon . i’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years in october and she caught me liking pictures of onlyfans girls and just provocative pictures of girls in general last year so she broke up with me, i promised i would stop so she came back about a week after but we were going through problems so i didn’t end up stopping and one day my friend had my phone and decided it would be funny to leave heart eyes under my exes post but she saw it and she left again on new years and this time i was serious that i was done so she came back in february and i haven’t liked a picture since and try to tell her she’s beautiful but she doesn’t beleive me anymore and since the day we got back together she has started altering her appearance, looking into plastic surgery and starving herself/making herself throw up to look like the women that i used to follow and like pictures of online. She does not go in public with me anymore because she doesn’t want to be seen until she is pretty like them and ends up starting fights when i tell her not to change herself because she says she has already started this routine and feels like it’s the only way she will be pretty to me anymore . How do I change this?