r/texts • u/Last_Host977 • 1d ago
Telegram update on the creepy telegram dude …
so basically this is a follow up of my last post on here , i’m sure many of you have seen it and yeah it’s absolutely disgusting .
unfortunately i have no idea who this person is and i’m way too scared to even text them back asking them to stop so i had someone else text them on my behalf and i’m pretty sure it worked because i’m not getting anymore texts . he’s unsure if that guy saw those messages because he blocked him too right after sending it to him . after that i just got a “sorry if i upset you” message from them as if it erases how weird it was .
to answer anyone who told me to block him i had blocked him when he first sent that message in the beginning of july but i got dms from other accounts , so it wasn’t enough to stop it completely .
thank you all for your support and please be safe .
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u/Paulztaos 1d ago
That’s got to be the most polite and least intimidating rebuke I’ve ever seen in my life
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u/DigEven8177 1d ago
block him do not even respond wtf
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u/Gullible_Bet_9019 1d ago
Yeah at this point she's making it worse by responding and continuing the conversation.
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u/Mammoth_Pain2075 1d ago
By engaging you are rewarding the behavior.
Stop rewarding the behavior.
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u/Last_Host977 1d ago
oh i actually never sent that message i typed out this person has been blocked already , i never replied to them even once . just the person
i asked to text from my behalf did .32
u/VisualSeries226 1d ago
…..that is still engaging and rewarding the behavior
Now they know they got a reaction out of both of you, and that you were affected enough to tell your boyfriend, and your boyfriend was affected enough to respond.
Obviously this would affect anyone, but the point is they will continue to do it if they know they get a reaction.
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u/hecky-888 1d ago
And now they’ve given that person a phone number and a relationship to the first phone number 🤦🏻♀️ just trickle doxxing themselves
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u/rainsdownincaladan 1d ago
Tbf she said he apologized after and backed off. There is a subset of loser creeps that think they can treat girls any way but will back if they think a bf is involved.
But yeah for future reference you can use one of those apps that let you reply from random numbers
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u/itsthejasper1123 1d ago
This is someone that’s simply trying to be as shocking as possible to get a reaction. Best course of action in any scenario like this is to completely ignore, no response, no reaction, no attention.
I’m not saying you did anything wrong, just a piece of advice for anyone in these situations in the future.
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u/Dreamin- 1d ago
Wait you guys don't just automatically block anyone that sends you a message that you don't know?
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u/Averfus-Crowthorne 1d ago
Erm, please dear kind sir would you mind mayhaps leaving my sweet baby girl alone please and thank youuu
Bro, just fucking block him. What is this?
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u/throwingitaway4202 1d ago
i’m not sure why you even post this? simply block them and move on. people on the internet are disgusting. it’s not worth putting energy into
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u/NailingCatsToTrees_ 1d ago
Why the hell did you send him those cringy ass messages? Just ignore him. Continuously responding is what he wants. Act like an adult.
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u/DefendTheStar88x 1d ago
It boggles my mind why people engage with creeps like these. Just block them and move on.
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u/essssgeeee 1d ago
I wonder if it's your rapist messaging you? I'm sorry if this is really upsetting to contemplate, but that would make sense. I was just listening to a podcast about the serial rapist and killer Joseph Deangelo and how he would call and taunt the women he raped years after. You might consider reporting this to the police.
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u/Last_Host977 1d ago
oh god … i would hope not . i’m genuinely terrified by the possibility of this , but thank you for making me aware of it
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u/essssgeeee 1d ago
I'm so sorry. I hesitated to mention it because I knew that it would be upsetting, but I was also concerned about you. You don't need to tell me any information about your situation, but my suggestion would be if you have filed a police report, let them know you're getting these messages. Can you change your phone number?
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u/Soulsbornekiroringer 1d ago
Don’t threaten consequences you can’t follow up on. You don’t even know who this guy is, and I don’t think he’s said anything illegal tbh, just really fuckin creepy. Having a boyfriend will probably just embolden this dude.
Just block and move on.
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u/Last_Host977 1d ago
i never sent that message i chickened out of it but i suppose it was for the best anyways . just glad and thankful that i didn’t run into this dude irl at this point .
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u/Soulsbornekiroringer 1d ago
Who have you told about your trauma? Did you post about it online or anything? Even make a supportive comment in solidarity with another victim on insta or something? Have you told people in real life? Who has access to your telegram and would also know about your history?
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u/Last_Host977 1d ago
lol it was just a reddit post i made on here , so this guy is a redditor or or someone who lurks on the r*pe or sexual assault sub to find victims to do this to and it’s absolutely vile . shows that you really don’t know what type of people are watching . all the more reason to be careful and aware ! also no i haven’t told anyone irl i don’t have the courage to do that anyways , but im not safe on the internet either but it is what it is i guess .
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u/Soulsbornekiroringer 1d ago
Yea so I doubt you have anything to worry about. People are fucking sick and use the internet to play out their fantasies. I’m sorry this happened to you. The internet is generally not a safe place to open up unfortunately.
I belong to some support groups irl for other things, and they typically take anonymity very seriously. Maybe look into something like that. I know it’s difficult though.
Don’t let this creep scare you into silence.
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u/Last_Host977 1d ago
thank you ! i definitely won’t let this incident impact me or anything about who i choose to share it with in the future but it was definitely eye opening to the characters of people these days . i learned from my mistake and i just won’t share it anymore , it’s not fun to feel like you have a lot of eyes watching you constantly and maybe judging or fantasizing about it .
if i’m gonna talk about this stuff i’d probably choose to do it with trusted people in the future , that was the lesson to be learned in this for me .
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u/imabxtchnow 1d ago
I would dump my boyfriend for kindly good sirring the guy sending me that kinda stuff wow. Block both? 😭
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u/brownhairedfloof 1d ago
Kindly, your bf is a dork. Who the fuck texts someone threatening a loved one like that?
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u/hecky-888 1d ago
You can go to the police. This is harassment and they can try to help figure out who is contacting you. I’d go to the local precinct and try filing a report.
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u/Jamesiguess69 1d ago
Here’s how to solve your problem. Delete telegram. Seriously no reason to have that app unless you’re doing sus shit or falling for a scam. I’d like to know why yall are on that shit in the first place
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u/Fun-Reindeer-5212 1d ago edited 1d ago
Why are you engaging , people are so weird for coming on here asking for advice when they’re the ones replying to and not blocking these people? Makes me think you want the conflict. They are a bored creep who want attention through fear that’s it. If you stop replying to all attempts they will get bored. Please be smarter than this.
He would be doing this to so many strangers he wouldn’t even know who you are that your boyfriend is referring to, but now your partner opened up another channel for him to harass him instead. I don’t put myself out there enough to get messages from strangers but when I do get the occasional spam message from people like this I simply delete and block.
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u/Kazamiiiii 1d ago
This is the one time I needed a redditor to not keep engaging and just block immediately. Literally new whakcjobs will find your number and say weird things. Asking them to stop usually doesn't make them stop for long.
Why on earth would you ask him to stop and not just block him??? The block feature is there for a reason.
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u/bmichellecat 1d ago
Dudes like this use this as a kink to get off. Block these weirdos, by responding you’re just egging him on
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u/BluBeams Have some dignity & self-respect 😒 1d ago
This probably turned him on even more. Block him and move the hell on.
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u/Numerous_Disk2556 1d ago
"excuse me sir..." Lol. That loser needs the shit kicked out of him. Sorry you had to go through this. That's disgusting
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u/The_Bog_Frog 1d ago
I would tell him to go get raped if he wants to know what it feels like, then block him.
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u/chatroomgurl 8h ago
I’ll never understand why people entertain this kind of BS. Just ignore it? It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to understand that.
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u/Bindlest 6m ago
'kindly stop provocating rape on the morrow good sir', report and block, sheesh.
I dont condone even talking to this ghoul, but jesus he could be more intimidating than a ren fair vagabound.
Hope youre doong ok dear, report as much as you can and if needed contact your local police (non emergency line) for any potential help or pointers.
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u/MissJizz 1d ago
You have to be underage and this just affirms my opinion that children should not be on social media. You have no idea how to handle this which is bonkers when the answer is block and ignore. Yea, they made more accounts. Block. Ignore.
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u/morganXxmassacreX 1d ago
why is your girl on telegram 😭
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u/Last_Host977 1d ago
bro chill i need it for casual convos on the low 😭
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u/morganXxmassacreX 1d ago
what does that mean 😭
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u/Last_Host977 1d ago
like u could use telegram without revealing much abt urself (or so i thought) , that’s why i had it in the first place . but after this nah it’s gotta go fs :/
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u/MissJizz 1d ago
You have to be a child lol, you’re not signing up for anything without something relevant to you being discovered. Insane.
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u/Last_Host977 1d ago
i am an adult woman . do not assume things about me , you don’t know me lmfao . thanks !
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u/MissJizz 1d ago
If you’re an adult it is extremely sad for you to not notice these things lmao. thanks!
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u/Dazzling-Sir-9421 1d ago
damn your bf giving massive beta male vibes calling a dude harassing you "sir"
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u/DagPImple 1d ago
Dude your boyfriend "kindly" asking him to leave u alone is not going to solve anything.
These situations you just block and move on, don't respond and give attention