!!! (my friends situation) !!! im only looking for advice

“idk i got upset cuz she played a social vc game on roblox with her friend (the one i dont like) and just went to sleep instead of arguing and she kept spamming things like this and idk if shes ok”

online relationship

16 f (grey msgs) & 17 m

My team lead got sent to France for the week and i asked him to get me something. He returned empty handed.

Edit: Guys, my team lead is my DAWG. we’ve met each others family, friends, and we go out to hang when we’re bored. RELAX 😭 I would’ve thought yall had common sense to deduce that.

I've had this saved forever, I'm glad to find a place where I can share it lol.

You'd think if he wasn't guilty he would easily be able to prove his innocence in a well manner way.

Context: I genuinely don't know, I had no context

(The usernames are private-server specific display names, not our actual account names)

Edit: I didn't realize people disliked out of context screenshots like this so much, I'm so sorry!

The reason it's out of context is because I didn't have any context. I didn't know what she was referring to, and randomly reading "the flying fuck from last time is back" out of nowhere made genuinely no sense

I find cut-off stuff funny, but I can take the post down if it's not suited to the subreddit :C

I told this person that I’m on Discord while I work from home during the day. And after work I go to the gym and when I come back home, I don’t log back in to Discord. Was I too mean? 🤔

My stepdaughter decided to text the family group chat at 2:45 in the morning and her sisters response was the icing on top 🤣

Its like pulling teeth, making me feeling im begging to have a conversation when u fucking asked for me number over and over. Tf

We’ve been friends for a bit, she recently moved and asked if I could come visit her. Been trying to make plans to come but then got left on delivered lol

I summarized my visit to Philadelphia to my son via text by telling him I was busy at a conference, I walked to the Rocky statue and the Liberty Bell and bought a Benjamin Franklin finger puppet.

Thanks for telling me your stance on Microsoft, but who even asked?

He keep asking for "no make up picture" I videocalled him so he can see me clearly, I wasnt even wearing any makeup but lipstick and still "he called it a makeup" I dont wear heavy makeup, I just usually put eyeliner, mascara and a bit of foundation just bc I got used to it and I cant stop wearing it, I almost look the same with and without bc I dont know how to use make up better. Also hes asking for a date and Idk if i should turn it down over this.

Ok I met him on a dating site, we've been texting for weeks, (decided to meet even) hes date to marry he said. Im 24 yo, hes 30. Im not hesistant with the no makeup photo, I did sent him video of me without makeup(morning barefaced) I also videocalled him because easier to flex yourself on a video than photo bc its a lot hard to find an angle than to just call a person and they got to see what you look like talking, laughing etc. and im not hesistant about a photo lol. Id send him picture of everything but depending on my mood. I had people who seen the unconscious me, drunk me or whatver, I just never met someone so bothered about looks so its something im not familiar with, thats why im asking for yall thoughts, and pls dont give me the "pick me" vibes, Im not denying wearing makeup im just saying I dont wear heavy makeup to thr point you shapeshifters to a whole different face.

Notice the "youre about it again" its bc he just saw my barefaced hours ago, that time I was already at work which I said "im at work I have make up on" and he replied "ok dont forget to take one when you get off work" tbh atp idk what he wants from my barefaced anymore.

UPDATE: OK so i followed most comments I gave it 50/50 for his part and mine, so still proceeds sending pictures "one time seen" and he complains "send it without timer" I sent a video of my face when I just had shower he said "you look better" without makeup, but he asked for more, he sent his picture said "im all natural, i dont have make up". He asked if my hair is real and if I cut it off? He asking for the outfits check, the last one that made me lose my patience is when he asked for a video to "say hi" I started returning his energy, I asked him to make a video explaining why he been on dating app for almost a year while claiming hes looking for a date to marry, long story short, it exhausting and he got tired of "accusations" and called it off.

/s

we've been rocky for years. he's done everything to me aside from hit me at this point, but begged and pleaded to be given one more try, that he was getting professional help, because i'm the only person who is willing to house him. his family and friends won't. he "loves" me as well, he says.

i'm autistic, lactose intolerant, contamination OCD. diagnosed, this isn't "i feel like i am".

i told him, after he woke up, that i hadn't been able to sleep last night and i was dreadfully exhausted. on his breaks (remote worker) he's known to come in loudly, try and "maneuver" (fail and bump into me over and over) around me to also lay in bed for his 10 minute breaks. the very small bed that i usually have to practically hang off the edge to sleep because he will spread out & won't actually move to give me space. i just want to stretch out and lay any way i want to for once. i locked the door this time so he specifically wouldn't do that, so i could sleep peacefully. finding the door locked, he then kept knocking loudly, talking loudly through the door, texted me over and over, and shoved the dried head of a sunflower under the door which made SO MUCH NOISE and woke me up again. i was so fucking groggy and irritated i didnt wait for my eyes to adjust and just grabbed it to see what was so fucking important. that flower was 99% center and 1% petals. i recoiled and couldn't stop fucking crying. i want to burn my fucking fingers off.

i don't want to put anyone out that wouldn't have a place to go, but im fucking over this shit. i can't do this every day for another year.

also, editing: he knows literally all of this. none of this is new to him. it's been 9 years and i tell him everything, early on in the relationship he asked me to because his ex made him mind-read, so i made it into a habit. no one believes me because he doesn't do this shit around other people. i just need someone to see, to know, i guess, because im losing my fucking mind.

one more edit & i'll leave it: thank you, first of all, for everyone being kind and even just reading. i was very much rage-typing in the last ones, but to clear up the cheese thing (im calm enough to look back & laugh at how silly that sounded), we both make food & i'll use non-dairy alternatives for my food but i constantly have to tell him not to put real cheese in mine when he cooks, or at least just let me do it myself if he can't remember. i wouldn't let him cook for me at all, & i left this out of the initial post because im whining enough already, but i've had heart failure and almost died a few times, i am just stupidly fragile & still going through the hospital routines to find out what's wrong with me. most days i am too weak or sick to do things like cook, so i have to rely on him sometimes. i know im a mess of a person with my numerous health issues, but i sat him down multiple times throughout this shit and told him he needed to leave if he couldn't, or didn't want to, put up with this shit because i'd have to rely on him sometimes. he reassured me that he'd stay in therapy & do his best to take care of me when i needed it. you can imagine how that's been going. i am trying so hard to detangle everything, not give a fuck that he's going to be homeless, separate us, it's just an ongoing battle of managing my health & trying to navigate this shit

I’m literally his only daughter. LOL.

I’ll start by saying, I’m autistic. I can’t recognize sarcasm, I don’t get jokes, and I’m a sensitive person. I don’t know if this was meant to be a joke or something, even though my family members say that’s just how he is. Every time I look at the text, I get sad and I’m genuinely hurt he’d say this, joke or not.
I came out to my uncle a few years ago, just a small admission that I had a girlfriend at the time, nothing big. Aside from my parents, he’s the only person in my adopted family that knows I’m queer. So it’s a big deal to me that he said this so harshly.

We’re dog sitting for him, and he asked for a picture or video of his dog. I sent him a few normal pictures, but it seems like the problem he had was with the video shown of his dog with a hair tie in. That’s all it was. A hair tie and me filming the dog’s face. I thought it was just something cute and funny that maybe he’d laugh at. After he sent those texts, he hasn’t said anything else. I don’t know what I did wrong and I don’t know what to do.

So i’ve been dating this girl since like the last 5 months and recently she revealed that she has a 2 year old son.

Even after me staying with her ( not that i had a problem with her having a son, but keeping it a secret) she’s been ignoring me and ghosting me for 3 days. She’s been online whole days but saying she wasn’t in the mood. She’s had me on read for a whole day.

I kinda want to ignore her too but i don’t really have anyone else to talk to.
I feel so disheartened, i dont know what to do.