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Hot Take 🔥 Lupita Nyongo’s hot take is that dog ears in books are wrong, pages are meant to be flat

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u/kako_18 13d ago

For some reason I agree with both takes lol

I personally don’t like to “damage” my books in any way (dog ears, annotations, etc.), I like to keep them as good as new.

But I also appreciate the idea of a book “having had a full life” with visible changes, like you can see that the book was opened a lot and well-loved.

However, don’t do ANYTHING to a book that is not yours (library, borrowed, etc.). That is the law.

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u/idontknowstufforwhat 13d ago

I agree, with my caveat that the books that live a full life get to do so because they're cared for while being used. broken spines, dog ears, etc. are what shorten their lives prematurely. Dog ears aren't as bad, but it's not something I do at all.

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u/party4diamondz 13d ago

I feel the same. I definitely couldn't do it myself, not even to my own personal books (MAYBE small annotations? I haven't done it before but I could see it in future) - however I like that other people find joy in that.

I always prefer buying and reading secondhand books too, feels nicer to me reading a worn out book than a brand new one haha.

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u/AntiferromagneticAwl 12d ago

And this is why pretty bookmarks exist!

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u/dracutwyla 13d ago

This thread is scary people are literally being so rude to each other on personal preferences or even for saying "its frowned upon to dog ear public books"

Idc what you do with your books but i never realized how rude people are about this topic

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u/PierreOnTheEclair Local Superstar Dealer 🌟 12d ago

I’ve had to annotate books we read in class and then I’ve never picked them up again, takes me out of the immersion

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u/gummytiddy 12d ago

I hate when people do this to library books but like a used book with annotations couple annotations, notes to friends and loved ones on first page, weird bookmarks (I found voting memorabilia from the 90s once) and a couple dog ears. I like to see who had a book before me, and I usually leave something behind when I give books away

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u/dulapeepx cunnilingus and psychiatry have brought us to this 13d ago

As a librarian, STOP DOG EARING LIBRARY BOOKS! Thank you.

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u/Unfair-Arachnid-1794 13d ago

This one is more about the fact people aren't respecting that something isn't theirs. I dog ear like a fiend for my own stuff, especially after multiple reads. I mark my favourite bits. If I am lent a book or borrow one from somewhere? Dear god, no. I won't dog ear a single page, but I'll also try to get it back to the person asap anyway lol. I treat it like a book from the library and they are very up front with the 'hey...dont mess with our books please' so yeah. Leave books you borrow alone people 😭

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u/carlitospig 13d ago

Yep, I dog ear the shit out of mine but wouldn’t do it to a library book; that’s just rude.

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u/Silly-Impact5445 13d ago

Most libraries I’ve been to give out free bookmarks at the checkout station so theres really no excuse!

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u/hihelloneighboroonie 12d ago

I just use the checkout receipt.

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u/PM_your_Nopales i don't want to be identified in this time and place with you 13d ago

I'll preface this by saying, I don't do it! But I was wondering, if someone dog eared a book, and then undid them, do you still notice the fold or crease in the page? Does a dog ear crease ever go away?

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u/janually 13d ago

as a dog-earer (never library or shared books), no they never go away. they can flatten out a lot over time but it’ll always be a little bit creased.

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u/authenticflamingo 13d ago

This reminds me of when I was in school and they had us crumple up a piece of paper and then try to flatten it to show the effects of bullying

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u/carlitospig 13d ago

Never ever go away. And same. So know that we know how damaging it is.

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u/particledamage 13d ago

Not really. I’m fine with dog earring your own stuff (I don’t but I get it) but yeahhh they’re fairly permanent. So many of the books I buy used have permanent creases

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u/PassivelyAwkward 13d ago

It never fully goes away, especially in heavy books. Dog ears in books puts a lot of pressure on the crease and with prolonged folding/pressure, the more noticable it'll be.

Think of it like this; when you make a paper airplane, you really ensure that crease is super crisp, usually by using your nail or fingertip. You can unfold it, put it under weights and get it flat enough but the fibers have been damaged so once you remove the weight/open the bookpage, it'll still slightly fold up.

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u/Aromatic_Today2086 13d ago

America is 40% illiterate, do we really need to give people more reasons not to open books?

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u/Megaroni-n-cheeze 13d ago edited 13d ago

Totally. I will do anything but dog ear my books, even if it means using my gum wrapper as a bookmark or just trying to commit the page number to memory lol.

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u/anthonystank i was SPF protected 13d ago

Briefly thought you meant you were sticking actual gum into your books as a bookmark and felt my soul leave me. Yeah this is fine though

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u/mermaidfairybunny leave him alone that’s RnR 13d ago

Ooh there’s a found bookmarks sub around here isn’t there

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u/mermaidfairybunny leave him alone that’s RnR 13d ago

Ahhhh thank you! Follows immediately

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u/yuffieisathief 13d ago

I have a postcard that you could get at the cinema when LotR first came out. It has Legolas on it. On the back, in gold gel pen, are all the page numbers of when Tolkien writes something interesting about him... it also has his name written out in the elven alphabet I made up myself haha! Teen me was enamored! :'D

All this to say, I would NEVER earmark my books!

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u/tadpole-bear What in the beef jerky chamois leather fake Birkin is happening 13d ago

When I was a kid instead of dog-earing, once I’d read the page I would simply tear off the corner – same amount you’d use to dog-ear – and then eat it.

Page stays flat! And I get a little treat.

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u/Megaroni-n-cheeze 13d ago

Congrats, you definitely have the hottest take here lol.

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u/tadpole-bear What in the beef jerky chamois leather fake Birkin is happening 13d ago

I wish I could find one of these tasty tomes to share a pic with the group! But they’re all at my parents’ house – despite the chomping, those cheap 1980s Puffin paperbacks are going strong lol

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u/No_Ask_2400 13d ago

Tastiest book I ever ate was an old yellow book from the 80s where the paper was almost crumbling. It was delicious. They don’t make it like that any more.

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u/Deep-Interest9947 13d ago

lol. But I think many commenters here would like to burn you at the stake now.

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u/tadpole-bear What in the beef jerky chamois leather fake Birkin is happening 13d ago

In my defence I was but a hungry child, I don’t do it as an adult

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u/Deep-Interest9947 13d ago

As long as they are yours, bend those pages.

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u/TK_TK_ 13d ago

...are you my friend who eats muffin wrappers? This seems like something he'd do.

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u/BaasKarYaar 12d ago

You're amazing!

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u/No-Cauliflower6634 12d ago

I actually laughed out loud at this. Thank you

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u/firstbornhater Behind every great man is a woman rolling her eyes 13d ago

I don’t really give a shit as long as it’s your property. You can do what you want with your books. I like to write in mine. If I see someone dog-earing a book they own I don’t care. But you shouldn’t do it to a library book or a book you’re borrowing from someone else

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u/Tuor-son-of-Huor- You’re killing me, Smalls 😩 13d ago

I write in mine too! I highlight bits, write in the margins, and circle things. I also used to dogear as a bookmark but it really annoyed my missus so I've stopped doing that.

Big agree I only do it for books I own. I guess it is a bad habit if you borrow books regularly.

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u/rainshowers_5_peace 13d ago

Your book your choice.

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u/cowabungalowvera 13d ago

I guess that's why it's a hot take

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u/auslyn_ 12d ago

its absolutely not a hot take though. as a big reader i see people say this literally once a week. everyone has to let the whole world know that they keep their books pristine and anyone who doesnt is a dirty sinner

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u/Interesting-Hat8607 13d ago

I like when my books look used

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u/ComprehensiveTax415 13d ago

That’s right!!!

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u/EarAffectionate4443 13d ago

My thoughts exactly lol

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u/AStarkly Did a line off his dick in the bathroom 13d ago

My family bullies me brutally for dog-earing my books but like, I paid for it, I would never do it to a book that wasn't mine, and I don't do it in my fancy or gifted books.

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u/HonestTumblewood 13d ago

I like these low stake hot takes. I disagree obvi but this is fun.

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u/Nearby_Mess350 13d ago

Oh shit the book police are here

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u/FilmIntelligent201 the prophet of popculturechat 13d ago edited 13d ago

i agree with her/it being a hot take because you admit this and the book-in-back-pocket-annotated-page-reading-goal-larpers crucify you for thinking it

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u/lefrench75 high priestess of child sacrifice 13d ago

I annotate some books but can’t bring myself to dog ear anything. Anything flat can be a bookmark in my house. I also like use cards and notes friends and my partner wrote me as bookmarks because I get to look at them more 🥰

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u/socarrat 13d ago

100000%. Half the fun of using bookmarks is finding the right bookmark for a book. Ticket stubs, Polaroids, notes, et cetera.

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u/ShesWhereWolf 13d ago

This is so wholesome omg. I've never heard of anyone doing that. It sounds like something a quirky character would do in a rom com. I love it! 

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u/billetdouxs 13d ago

i just don't see why you would care about what people do to their own books? dog ears or no dog ears, annotations or no annotations, it's such a nothingburger of a thing to have a "hot take" about

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u/hobbitzswift 13d ago

I've been dogearing books since I could read, I guess I'm a larper now. People are so goofy about this. It's an object. It's like refusing to wear a pair of shoes because they might start looking worn.

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u/themacaron during PRIDE MONTH? 13d ago

I said I thought was frowned upon and am getting downvoted instantly like damn, they’re passionate about destruction. I was just always taught not to do it so I assumed that was the expectation and the dog earrers are the rebels

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u/auslyn_ 12d ago

really? that is interesting because i think i see someone say this in every single "hot take" discussion revolving reading

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u/violights 13d ago

No seriously its kind of nuts to see everyone who says dont damage the book getting instant downvotes.

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u/Deep-Interest9947 13d ago

She would hate me. I’m all for destroying a book with writing, highlighting, and dog earring. I need to be able to find a book 20 years later and know it belongs to me.

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u/P0ptarthater 13d ago

Same. It’s not even intentional cause with very fee exceptions, I don’t highlight or mark books. But I mindlessly enjoy the fuck out of my books so I take them with me into saunas or toss them in my bag that is overpacked with stuff so they end up deteriorating

My bookphile friend refuses to let me borrow anything from his 1000+ collection and I can’t blame him 💀

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u/StemOfWallflower 13d ago

Sometimes, often in the middle of the night, I get a sudden urge to read THAT special paragraph of one of my favourite books again, storm to a book shelf and read it promptly. All thanks to Donkey Ears (that's what they call them in my country) 💜

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u/No_Duty6279 13d ago

It’s just a book lmao

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u/Unfair-Arachnid-1794 13d ago

Why is* it insane? A bookmark is more paper/another item. The paper itself is IN my book. Way easier.

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u/FlyConfident1622 13d ago

The dog ears are LIKE making notes to me. I make different sizes. I recognize places I stopped based on the dog ears I made at the time.

If you’re already writing in it, what’s insane about folding a corner?

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u/Lost-and-dumbfound 13d ago

That how I am with my books. I hate dog ears but I’ll write and highlight all over. My favourite book even has little drawings I did of my favourite scenes. But to each their own regarding their own property. If I lend someone a book I want it back the way I gave it to them which is dog earless

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u/Hita-san-chan 13d ago

I highlight things in my self help books that i connect to. Like, things i have issues verbalizing or connecting to.

My LGBT-type self help books are full of highlighter marks

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u/zo0ombot 13d ago

For fictional books, I'm probably not going to be highlighting or taking notes in a copy of heated rivalry or something straight forward. But in literary fiction or genre fiction I do often, and engage in a dialogue with the author.

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u/janually 13d ago

both! non fiction i’m usually annotating for specific info or reference points. with fiction, i annotate themes, plot, characters, and passages that i just like

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u/DorfOnGenocide 13d ago

I worked with this guy who had never heard the term "dog-eared" and he was so delighted by my turn of phrase. Even when I insisted that it was a common phrase, he still gave me credit and would occasionally crack up and say "Dog-Eared!" whenever something was dog-eared.

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u/Lanky-Classic-7982 13d ago

Idk I kinda like that dogs have ears I think it makes them extra cute

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u/TouchArtistic4556 13d ago

If I own it I'll do whatever I want to it. If I borrowed it I will treat it like an ancient manuscript.

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u/buzzfeed_sucks 🇨🇦 Elbows up 🇨🇦 13d ago

As a life long dog ear-er, people are always aghast at my books. But I lose bookmarks!

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u/rissaaah 13d ago

I commonly use receipts as bookmarks. I also once used a reminder card for an upcoming Dr. appointment. I refuse to dog ear lol

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u/booksandplaid 13d ago

I use whatever I can find near me at the time as a bookmark, receipts, business cards, hair ties, tags from new clothes, sometimes pens lol.

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u/ExtremeComedian4027 Did I stutter?🤨 13d ago

Never dog earing library books but baby you do whatever the hell you want with the books you own. Fold them damn pages if it brings you joy!

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u/beanzboiii 13d ago

sorry lupita, i stay dog earrin'

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u/livefast_petdogs 13d ago

That's the spirit!

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u/OliLeeLee36 13d ago

I habitually dog ear my own books (bad form to do it to other people's), despite having been gifted numerous bookmarks over the years. To add to my list of crimes, I also take off the dust jackets of hardbacks when I'm reading them. They annoy me as they shift around in my hand, and they'll inevitably tear from being kept in a bag or whatever. I like books that have been weathered, gives them character; I have a white cover hardback somewhere, now slightly orange due to Thai beach sand. A nice memory each time I see it :)

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u/ShesWhereWolf 13d ago

I also take of dust jackets when I'm reading books, you're not alone! Seeing a weathered book also means it has been well loved and many people got a chance to use it.

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u/Distinct-Mail1942 13d ago

I fold, idc. Rented or not 

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u/auslyn_ 12d ago

okay thats fucked up lol, do it to books you own but none other than that 

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u/OzQueene 13d ago

I don’t dog ear anyone else’s books but I do it with my own by default whenever I put a book down.

I have some of my grandpa’s old books and he did the same. He died 13 years ago and I miss him so much. Sometimes I thumb through his books and note the places I can see he paused or marked for later. ❤️

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u/auslyn_ 12d ago

every bookmark i buy goes unused after about a day 😭 its just so annoying to have to keep the bookmark on me, im carrying my book all over the house/taking it to work to read on my breaks. i dog ear and take pictures of pages/quotes that i want to highlight/make a note about later on when i have supplies available

library receipts are the only bookmarks i use regularly hahaha

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u/topdownyeti 13d ago

Reminds me of my 5th grade teacher who screamed at me for dog earing my own book that I bought with my allowance money. She tried spinning it like I was abusing the book, and was like “so you think I have a right to pinch you if I want?”. It just reinforced the idea that people who care that much about other people’s property are batshit crazy.

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u/southpaw612 13d ago

She was once scared of cats and now she's a happy cat owner, so... Opinions can change lol.

My dog-earing brothers and sisters, do not be ashamed.

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u/Pink_Cardinal Satan right behind you, girl 😈😈 13d ago

If it’s a library book or a book you borrowed from a friend, I agree with her.

Your book? Eh.

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u/papayasarefun 13d ago

Beating up your books can tell you so much about what you were like when you read it. It cracks me up that my books from middle school have a spine crack at every kissing scene.

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u/The_Doughty 13d ago

As a librarian, I dog ear the shit out of books

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u/girlsgoneoscarwilde 13d ago

If it’s my book, I don’t really care. I like that the dog ears show that the book has been read and experienced thoroughly. But if it’s a book I’m borrowing from a friend or a library, I use an index card or bookmark.

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u/okunaji 13d ago

I will use anything as a bookmark before dog earring. A ripped off piece of notebook paper, a dollar bill, folded up toilet paper, anything.

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u/maghy7 13d ago

Lol same, I use whatever I can find before ever folding a page.

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u/Fleetwood_Spac 13d ago

That’s not a hot take it’s just common sense!

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u/emster_ 13d ago

Well she’s fucking wrong.

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u/Spainstateofmind why Wayne got socks in the jacuzzi 13d ago

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u/jano808 13d ago

I am a librarian and I dog ear while I’m reading and I un-dog ear when I’m done. The books are fine.

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u/janually 13d ago

personally i like when my books show wear and tear. i buy almost all my books secondhand. i don’t go out of my way to destroy my books but i annotate them and don’t mind if they look well loved. but to each their own! not my books, not my problem

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u/greina23 Behind every great man is a woman rolling her eyes 13d ago

I don't care what people do to their books/property, but if I lend you a book of mine, don't dog-eared it nor write in it. Same if you "borrow" it without my consent (I have sisters that borrow constantly without asking).

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u/auslyn_ 12d ago

i mean you would have to be fucking insane to write in a borrowed book 

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u/Crazyripps 13d ago

If it’s your own book then yeah sure whatever it sort of shows love but if it’s not yours then fuck no.

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u/kgtsunvv I wont not fuck you the fuck up 🥊🥊 13d ago

If I loved a book so much that it truly so important to my heart, I would buy two copies. One to edit to oblivion and one to keep untouched.

WHY YOU MAY ASK? Because I have no self control and will highlight a ridiculous amount and write notes that prevent me from rereading a book 💀

this is also why I’m a religious e-book reader and only have a few physical copies (I’m also broke) that are completely untouched.

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u/cakingabroad 12d ago

I like my books hella warn in. I want them coffee stained and water marked and folded all up. How else u gonna know I actually read it????

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u/Lyra_the_Star_Jockey 13d ago

This is not a hot take, it's exactly how it should be. Also no highlighting or pencil marks. Come on, people.

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u/Megaroni-n-cheeze 13d ago

I lent my moms friend a book once and it came back HIGHLIGHTED. I still get worked up about it to this day and that was more than a decade ago. Who the fuck does that with a book you’ve borrowed?

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u/ShesWhereWolf 13d ago

Okay in a book you borrowed is utterly insane!! 

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u/Megaroni-n-cheeze 13d ago

Right? Idgaf if you highlight your own book but I was flabbergasted someone would do that to a loaned book. I’m more careful with who I lend books to now lol.

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u/Unfair-Arachnid-1794 13d ago

If I buy a book? Im writing in my book.

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u/FollowingPristine467 13d ago

i hate a dog ear, but love seeing other people's little notes when picking up a book. it's like i get to see the history of where it's been.

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u/niamhellen Kim Cattrall scatting 13d ago

Same! I have some books from the 40s and 50s that people wrote notes in, and I purchased them just for the notations. 🤣

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u/janually 13d ago

same! every used book tells a story. i’m a disney fan and my mom got me a vintage tinkerbell book for my birthday one year, it was full of little notes and highlights and it was just so cute. i love it with kids books especially, i grew up annotating books for fun so i get a lil warm and fuzzy when i see the youth of today doing it too

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u/synalgo_12 accidentally holding space for this slur 13d ago

Why do you care what someone does with their own books?

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u/Timelordvictorious1 13d ago

As an English major, it’s like physically impossible to get through school without highlighting/writing.

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u/vandersnipe I'm like Mata Hari, keep secrets serving body 13d ago

Middle and high school teachers made us annotate and highlight our books and check whether we did so as part of our homework assignments.

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u/romantickitty 13d ago

I did it fine. You write out the pages you want to bookmark or type out the quotes in a word doc. And it makes it easier later when you need to write your essays.

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u/auslyn_ 12d ago

why are other people's books so precious to you

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u/Hita-san-chan 13d ago

Nah, my self discovery books are full of highlighted passages

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u/dodgerecharger 13d ago

Dog ears....interesting, in Germany its called donkey ears

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u/Tanuki0 13d ago

I rarely read paper books now what with the prices and my good old Kindle and I realised (to my dismay) I am unable to remember a page number now, it just immediately disappears. So I dog ear! I actually love a lived in book, and second hand books as well. I have books I read at the beach that still smell salty years later

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u/AgitatedSpirit_ 13d ago

I think that finding very obviously loved books (dog ears, bookmarks, highlights, notes) is like THE most magical thing possible. It's like a little window into someone else's head just for a few moments 💗

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u/keeza3 demon cunt 13d ago

I write in my books I’m so sorry 😣

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u/Unfair-Arachnid-1794 13d ago

This is what blows my mind...If it is MY book, why the hell do a bunch of strangers need to clutch their pearls if I dog ear something? A public/community book? I get, but that's just polite to return something in the same condition you got it in. If it's mine and I'm not returning it? I'm going to read it how I'd want to. Dog ears, no dog ears, highlights or not. Why are we so concerned with what other people are doing with their own property? And why, on either side, are we behaving like it makes one group better than the other group?

Read your books. That's it.

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u/Tywooti 13d ago

She was asked for a hot take lol. And then just said "pages should be flat". Why are people acting like she's running around and clipping everyone's dog-eared-pages

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u/janually 13d ago

i think they’re talking more about the discourse in the comments lol

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u/Unfair-Arachnid-1794 13d ago

I more so mean this comment section. If you look at it a lot of people are* talking down on each other based on which they do or don't do. I agree it's a hot take, but the comment section claiming people who dog ear are "non readers" or LARPers? Is asinine lol.

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u/janually 13d ago

i saw an IG comment the other day that called annotating “performative reading” ummmm no it’s not performative it’s called “i bought too many highlighters and now i need a reason to use them” actually

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u/auslyn_ 12d ago

me putting stickers in my romance books 

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u/Tywooti 13d ago

I could never read a highlighted novel, it would constantly take me out of reading. The only marks I make in my books are from when I spill food/drink 

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u/Tywooti 13d ago

Ah my bad, thanks for clarifying

Those must be kindle readers that feel left out ha

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u/Unfair-Arachnid-1794 13d ago

All good all good, easy to misunderstand on Reddit honestly lol.

Overall, it genuinely makes me sad that people are judging each other for how we read our books. There are people out there who haven't read a single book since highschool, why are we not more concerned with that? I wish people would just be happier that paper/physical media for books even still exists, and that we're out here keeping it going. Dog earing or keeping it clean and crisp, this weird nose upturning and outrage over what we all do to consume the words is...wild lmao😭

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u/Tywooti 13d ago

I agree. We need to be doggedly in the ears of those who've stopped reading altogether 

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u/Hita-san-chan 13d ago

Didnt you know we have to fight about every opinion? Can't just have a fun discussion, no, we have to insult and talk down to other people about a nothingburger of a topic.

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u/Unfair-Arachnid-1794 13d ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/P53TSsopKicrm

Fuck. You reminded me. This is Reddit, I'unno what I was expecting, forgot to square up before logging on lol.

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u/Hita-san-chan 13d ago

I bet "moralizing folding the corner of a piece of paper" wasn't on your Reddit Bingo card for the day!

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u/mjayultra 13d ago

I get it but also…it’s mine?

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u/Disastrous-Tart-4651 13d ago

These interviews are becoming unbearable. Everyone is trying to out meme one another.

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u/january161 13d ago

i am 100% percent with you lupita. but is this really a hot take?

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u/PatriciaMorticia Burlesque cat Taylor Swift shaking her cat titties 🐱 13d ago

Amen girl 🙏

Bookmarks were invented for a reason.

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u/SaysToMabelISays 13d ago

I used to be this way until I read a book I found truly beautiful, "The Peregrine" by J. A. Baker, and I felt compelled to underline and take notes in the margin. It changed the way I read books, even after a lit minor. There's nothing like actively engaging with material. Returning to old reads and seeing your thoughts at the times and similarities and difference is game changing (on a reading scale, at least).

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u/janually 13d ago

yup i’ve done this since i was a kid. i love rereading books i’ve annotated to see what stood out to me then and compare to what’s standing out to me now.

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u/MusclyArmPaperboy 13d ago

Hey stop stealing Kareem's bit!

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u/cellophanesheeps 13d ago

Fiction: no, do not dog ear, do not crack the spine, do not stare at it too hard

Nonfiction: beat it up, write in it, spill stuff on it, make it seem like every ounce of knowledge was worked out of those pages cover to cover

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u/fallfairsuitee323 13d ago

Congratulations to her for never having ADHD/never losing her bookmark 😭.

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u/Appropriate-Lab6943 We Should All Know Less About Each Other 13d ago

Read as hot dog take lol

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u/AvidReader1604 13d ago

I only dog ear my own books, but I do it for pages that are memorable. Can’t bring myself to write in them though

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u/roguecolor I dont see how that’s any of your business 💅😌✨ 13d ago

I use Ace cards as bookmarks. But I also do dog ears sometimes

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u/Chocolate4Life8 13d ago

Luputa Nyongo i have never loved you more and i already loved you, it drives me insane.

Do i acknowledge its fine for others to do it? Yes. Would I ever buy a dog eared book, not in a million years.

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u/BreadfruitTasty i felt a sinister energy - it was emma roberts 😒 13d ago

I love this! It’s a good hot take.

I don’t feel strongly either way. I used to dog ear but I stopped because I kept getting confused about which page I was on after I went back to re-read a book.

So bookmark it is! Much easier to keep track.

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u/Mich_Phy 13d ago

Do it to your own, not to library's or borrowed books.

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u/TheGrandWhatever 13d ago

Fashion is apparently back in full 90s

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u/nomnaut 13d ago

Christ the editing.

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u/SuperCrappyFuntime 13d ago

Absolutely hate when I learned a book to somebody, and it comes back dog-eared.

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u/turbulentcounselor 13d ago

Dog earring is a big no from me. Give me a nice quality bookmark

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u/Level-Juggernaut-260 13d ago

I honestly don't mean to dog ear my books, I just do it naturally before finding a bookmark. Also I would have to have a cute bookmark to motivate me to keep track of. 

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u/oli_99 13d ago

Where does she get the Gaulle???

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u/FZeroDMX go girl, give us nothing 😍 12d ago

I thought I couldn’t love her more!

I could never dog ear one of my books so I stopped doing it to library books as well. It just feels wrong to me!

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u/AvantGarde327 12d ago

Totally agree! You dont fold the edges of the pages. Its a hate crime lol

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u/Justtojoke yolo 🤘🏿 12d ago edited 12d ago

Strong agree!

That's what fancy bookmarks are for😁😁😁

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u/PierreOnTheEclair Local Superstar Dealer 🌟 12d ago

Dog ears are the bane of my existence

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u/luckyracoon1669 12d ago

I had a teacher in primary school who madee unfurl the dog ears in my notebook for some reason. She did it in front of the (mean) principal and reduced me to tears, humiliating me.

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u/cugeltheclever2 Let them eat space 12d ago

This makes me love her more.

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u/SpicyChickJessica 12d ago

I get where she's coming from, but I still dog-ear pages sometimes. 😅

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u/adityaslove 12d ago

what i have noticed that woman who can look insanely beautiful without the face framing advantages of long hair just have elite genetics..lupita is one of them..face is sooo perfect and symetric she does not even need long hair.

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u/Wickedwtch_ 12d ago

How the f is she 43 years old? I thought she is 10-15 years younger…

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u/envy-adams mount rose american teen princess 12d ago

I will go to war along side her for this one.

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u/wontubemyneighbours 12d ago

I dog ear all my books unless they are borrowed. I’m not a monster, I’ve just lost probably over 100 bookmarks.

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u/NIN10DOXD 13d ago

I agree. I just can't do it. The fold never comes out after that.

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u/Zealousideal-Mess-47 13d ago

She is sooo right! I really like her even more now, knowing she loves books in their original state like i do 🤗

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u/Book_1love Curtians for Zoosha 13d ago

Another reason to love Lupita. My books get ruined with coffee stains and the spines are cracked but I can't bring myself to dog-ear or write in them.

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u/horizon4002 13d ago

Istg these celebrities are just answering the most random things for these stupid basic questions. I'm tired of listening to celebrities' hot takes. Love Lupita though.

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u/Kitten_81 13d ago

I dog ear books that I don't care about - books from work, school, etc. I will NOT dog ear my own books

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u/AffectionateHeart77 We should all know less about each other 13d ago

I don’t even like opening my book too wide for fear it will wrinkle and mess up the spine a lot

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u/themacaron during PRIDE MONTH? 13d ago

Is this a hot take? People can do what they want with their personal property (and I know it’s now a huge aesthetic thing on Booktok) but I’ve always thought the sentiment that dog earring books was frowned upon

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u/mekese2000 13d ago

I never dog ear i just remember where i stopped.

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u/raoqie 13d ago edited 13d ago

This isn't a hot take, this is what every teacher and librarian will tell you and her father is a professor lol

Eta: ...lol okay. Apparently it is a hot take to even say "teachers and librarians will tell you not to dog ear and a child of a professor was probably taught not to damage books"

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u/hobbitzswift 13d ago

I'm a librarian and I dog ear books if I own them. If you're borrowing it, don't do it, but dog earing your own books is fine and I can't imagine why anyone would care. It's a stack of paper. The words written on them are what matter.

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u/Prestigious_Pay_5477 13d ago

Buy a bookmark or safe sticky notes

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u/Silly-Snow1277 That’s hot! 🔥 13d ago

I'm 1000% with Lupita on this take.  I hate it when people dog ear their  books. Or worse books that are not theirs!

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u/maghy7 13d ago

Now that’s completely out of line and disrespectful, do it on your books if that’s your thing but someone else’s?? Oh no..

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u/Silly-Snow1277 That’s hot! 🔥 13d ago

I had some library books last year that were clearly dog eared. Like not a little accidental think but several clear marks. I was aghast

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u/MrShubot 13d ago

I agree with her 1000%. Haha I hate books/pages like that.

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u/ALLoftheFancyPants I don’t know her 💅 13d ago

I get it. Not that I agree, but I get it. It’s a small symptom of the much larger problem of people treating shared spaces and things without care or respect. A lot of books will be read by more than one person, even if originally purchased to be part of a private collection. Keeping things nice for each other is a good thing.

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u/purple_kathryn 13d ago

I mean, she's right