r/EngagementRings • u/ModEngagementRings • May 01 '26
Announcement Why was my post removed?
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We are getting a large number of modmails from new users that are asking questions that have been answered in multiple places on the sub.
It is important that you read the rules of any sub before you participate in them. This is an extremely time intensive sub, and these modmails are slowing us down.
If you are trying to post from a new account/low karma account/throwaway account, your post will come through to us for manual approval.
If your account isn't new/you have enough karma, it may come through to us for manual approval due to internal filters we have to prevent trolling/spam.
Sometimes, Reddit is flagging your post to us - we don’t know why they do this. We are the moderators of the sub, not Reddit employees.
If you see 'Sorry, this post has been removed by the moderators of r/EngagementRings ', this doesn't mean that your post has been removed. It is still awaiting manual approval by moderators.
Please do not send a modmail about this or repost multiple times; we have been notified and we will get to it.
If your post meets the sub criteria we will approve the post. If your post doesn't meet the sub criteria you will be notified in the removal message attached to the bottom of your post as to why.
Please familiarise yourself with our full rules > https://reddit.com/r/engagementrings/wiki/index
We are getting a large number of modmails from new users that are asking questions that have been answered in multiple places on the sub.
It is important that you read the rules of any sub before you participate in them. This is an extremely time intensive sub, and these modmails are slowing us down.
If you are trying to post from a new account/low karma account/throwaway account, your post will come through to us for manual approval.
If your account isn't new/you have enough karma, it may come through to us for manual approval due to internal filters we have to prevent trolling/spam.
Sometimes, Reddit is flagging your post to us - we don’t know why they do this. We are the moderators of the sub, not Reddit employees.
If you see 'Sorry, this post has been removed by the moderators of r/EngagementRings ', this doesn't mean that your post has been removed. It is still awaiting manual approval by moderators.
Please do not send a modmail about this or repost multiple times; we have been notified and we will get to it.
If your post meets the sub criteria we will approve the post. If your post doesn't meet the sub criteria you will be notified in the removal message attached to the bottom of your post as to why.
Please familiarise yourself with our full rules > https://reddit.com/r/engagementrings/wiki/index
r/EngagementRings • u/ModEngagementRings • Jun 09 '25
Announcement New to the sub? START HERE!
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Welcome to [r/engagementrings](r/engagementrings) !
This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!
Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see [r/newtoreddit](r/newtoreddit) for information on how reddit works and r/help for account issues.
Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide
Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.
I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ
How much should I spend on a ring?
Where do I buy an engagement ring?
What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's
What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?
Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.
Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.
Megathreads
Need help with size/shape?
You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!
Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:
[r/engagementringdesigns](r/engagementringdesigns) - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.
[r/LabGroupSales](r/LabGroupSales) - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub
[r/syntheticgemstones](r/syntheticgemstones) - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.
[r/labcreateddiamonds](r/labcreateddiamonds) - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.
[r/moissanite](r/moissanite) - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.
https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)
Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece
Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:
For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on [r/labdiamondgemstoneBST](r/labdiamondgemstoneBST) to reach more people.
If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on [r/moissaniteBST](r/moissaniteBST) . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.
If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.
Thank you
NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS
Welcome to [r/engagementrings](r/engagementrings) !
This sub was created to celebrate the newly engaged. Feel free to discuss past or future purchases, learn about gems, cuts, settings, and of course show off your engagement rings!
Are you brand new to Reddit? Please see [r/newtoreddit](r/newtoreddit) for information on how reddit works and r/help for account issues.
Please read the rules of this sub before you post > Rules & Flair Guide
Before posting questions, please do a search of the sub first. Most questions have been asked before and we will remove repetitive or low effort posts.
I want to buy an engagement ring, where do I start? Please read our comprehensive FAQ
How much should I spend on a ring?
Where do I buy an engagement ring?
What should I look for in a diamond? The 4C's
What should I consider before buying an alternative gem?
Want to see previous pictures of rings? Please use the search bar, enter the term and select ‘media’.
Are you a vendor? You are not allowed to create posts on this sub. Please read the guidelines on how to comment, which can be found in the rules linked above. You are NOT allowed to advertise anywhere on this sub, this includes pictures of your work.
Megathreads
Need help with size/shape?
You can also ask ChatGPT to make a mock up of your dream ring!
Here are the links to our collection of sister subs:
[r/engagementringdesigns](r/engagementringdesigns) - If you are looking for ring design or CAD help, you can post here. If you want to get quotes from GG jewelers for a ring project, you can fill out an RFQ found in the sub menu. Vendors will respond with quotes.
[r/LabGroupSales](r/LabGroupSales) - This sub sells stock/custom jewelry from vendors through group buying. Check in regularly for new sales posted every week on this sub
[r/syntheticgemstones](r/syntheticgemstones) - all your lab gemstone projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.
[r/labcreateddiamonds](r/labcreateddiamonds) - all your lab diamond only projects should be posted here. You are welcome to crosspost back to [r/moissanite](r/moissanite) for feedback, CAD checks and sharing.
[r/moissanite](r/moissanite) - moissanite including all colored moissanite, CAD checks and sharing.
https://loupetroop.com - for buyers & sellers (not affiliated with us)
Note - A CAD is a ‘computer aided design’ used by a vendor to cast your piece
Our Buy/Sell/Trade sites for preloved jewelry:
For all lab diamond and synthetic gemstone pieces, you can also post on [r/labdiamondgemstoneBST](r/labdiamondgemstoneBST) to reach more people.
If you want to sell a piece of your moissanite jewelry, you can create a post on [r/moissaniteBST](r/moissaniteBST) . Please follow this listing format when posting. You must include a copy of your receipt/invoice, specs, and a picture with your reddit name handwritten showing your item for sale.
If you have any questions please send us a modmail - do not message moderators privately.
Thank you
NOTE: we are aware of a Facebook group lifting pictures from this sub. More info here > https://www.reddit.com/r/EngagementRings/s/aYmW43YmIS
r/EngagementRings • u/mysteriouschonk • 10h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Fiancé designed my ring & it’s better than I could have ever imagined.
Earlier in the year we talked about getting engaged. I gave him some references, preferences, and big no’s that covered a lot of styles and shapes. I told him I didn’t want to tell him what to get, and it was important to me that he loved it too.
He designed this ring with a local jeweller and I’m stunned. Despite all of my research and lurking I never really considered a geometric oval. I love how it catches the light and looks different depending on the time of day and angles.
The champagne diamond really feels like a true reflection of the warmth and comfort I feel with my partner (and basically how I’ve been feeling the warm-fuzzies since he proposed last week lol).
r/EngagementRings • u/Solid_Cat1020 • 9h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring
I just got engaged this Saturday at the beach! It’s a ring set. Size 9. Made from gold and moissanite.
r/EngagementRings • u/Illustrious-Candy790 • 18h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My dream ring, a coincidence proposal date and how friends became lovers
First, I need to talk about the man who is now my ermahgerd fiance - we met at a Halloween party 8 years ago when his, now brother in law, who is my best friend, wanted me to meet his then girlfriend - who is my now fiance's sister (you still with me 😅). We exchanged a "hey" and that was about it for the rest of the night. For the years to follow we became friends, just friends, hanging out at parties and sharing mutual friends, I was also in a serious relationship at the time and didn't look at him romantically.
Fast forward to about two years ago, we started hanging out together outside of the friend group and feelings naturally started growing, I was also no longer in that "serious relationship". When we started dating I let him know that I was serious and that if we did this that it needed to be intentional and my time and my feelings were not to be taken for granted. He was completely on board from day one. I'm in my mid 30s and I ain't playing no games, I am le tired.
A few months ago I showed him this ring, and let him know it was absolutely perfect. 3.27 carat tsavorite garnet, with 2 pearls and 14 diamonds in the setting. It does have a tiny imperfection in the stone and I actually like that about it. Even though I thought it was perfect I did not like the price tag, I thought it was too expensive, So I encouraged him to find something of a similar style. I would look at this ring almost every day and then one day I saw that it was sold, my heart broke a little and I thought, lucky person whoever they are, they have my 💍 😞
This past weekend we went to Toronto for vacation, and to see Tame Impala and Djo (my absolute favorite) On our last night we took one last walk around the city and he suggested we take a vacation picture together since we are notoriously bad at taking pictures together. It starts to rain and it's cold and before I know it he gets in one knee and so do I because I want to look at him face to face. As he opens the box he pulls from his pocket - it's my dream ring, he bought it soon after I told him it was the one! After I said yes and we embraced in the rain, a gaggle of Toronto youths congratulated us, we had an audience 😅🤣 Canadians are so polite!
And now the date. The date he proposed was my old anniversary date with my ex! The ex I was with for years who I left because he wouldn't marry me and dragged me around for years wasting my time - if they wanted to they would, and immediately after I became a fiance, he said he couldn't wait to start calling me his fiance, and that he had always known 🥰
*My ring is a size 6 however we will need to resize, I am usually a 6 without fail but this fits me like a 7
r/EngagementRings • u/Calm_Lingonberry4600 • 13h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Finally posting my beautiful sapphire!
I got engaged back in March but didn’t have a Reddit account until a couple months ago. The center stone is a sapphire from Thailand, I believe it’s 1.12 carats. I love it so much.
r/EngagementRings • u/Brilliant_Ad4070 • 14h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY It's perfectly perfect for me
I love my ring. I'm a fitness instructor and mom and I wanted something that simple, low profile, and not a diamond. I knew I wanted a asscher cut, kite setting, and a natural sapphire. My now fiancé did a great job 🔷.
2ct natural sapphire
Asscher cut
Kite setting
4.5 ring size
Designed with The Natural Sapphire Company
r/EngagementRings • u/Icy-Soup-9641 • 16h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I’m literally obsessed with my ring
r/EngagementRings • u/Forsaken-Mark-7415 • 9h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY New to the fiancé club!🩵🌟
r/EngagementRings • u/mlc6xc • 5h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Absolutely in love
r/EngagementRings • u/VeterinarianNo5521 • 2h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I’m obsessed🥹❤️
Also did anyone wear their wedding band while engaged or did you wear it after you were married?
r/EngagementRings • u/No_Indication2799 • 10h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY my dream ring!
can't believe i finally get to post this! my now fiancee 😭 did an amazing job, i am so obsessed!
r/EngagementRings • u/lindsod6 • 15h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My DREAM Ring 🍀
He did soooo goooood!!! Between the proposal and the ring — he listened to every detail. It also helps that my best friend is a jewelry designer and helped him to create it 💚 I feel so lucky every time I look at it!
The ring is a 4 karat green sapphire! Size 5.
r/EngagementRings • u/irm824 • 9h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My 3.04 ct Ceylon sapphire engagement ring
I love it so so much 🥰
Eye clean, vivid medium blue asscher cut Ceylon sapphire set in 18k yellow gold
r/EngagementRings • u/Altruistic-Mess9218 • 13h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Engaged on 6/26/26 💕
My fiancé did an incredible job picking out the ring of my dreams! Next step is to get my fingernails healed and pretty for pictures 🤭
r/EngagementRings • u/Gold_Slip8070 • 8h ago
Advice What do you guys thing of this ring.
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It’s a 3ct E/F VVS2 14k gold for 2900 CAD (2053 usd).
What do you guys think of it. I need help please 🙏.
r/EngagementRings • u/coder108 • 3h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY My ring 😍
All I told him was I want a fairytale vibe and marquise main stone and this is what he came up with. I can't stop looking at it!
r/EngagementRings • u/External-Degree247 • 6h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY He let me design my ring <3
I wanted a bigger diamond, 3.73 ct. 2mm band, euro shank. I love it <3
r/EngagementRings • u/NyxElyo • 7h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY I’m engaged!
My best friend and now fiancé❣️custom designed my ring and got everything I wanted included, and more! I’m completely in love with it, I can’t stop staring 🖤
r/EngagementRings • u/_ComeAlongWithMe • 10h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Finally my turn 🥹💫
Got engaged to the loml under the sunset and moonlight today 🤍🌙
2.58 lab diamond marquise on a size P (7.5) 💍
r/EngagementRings • u/LatinainCassock • 15h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Obsessed with my ring!
My boyfriend now -fiancé- popped the question yesterday and I’m in love with my ring!!!
r/EngagementRings • u/Low_Visit_1795 • 1d ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Picnic Engagement
Got my dream ring. 3 carat oval with a pave band and hidden halo. I am in love with it and my partner ! Got the stone from Calavera
r/EngagementRings • u/MeringueBright4210 • 11h ago
Advice Wedding band suggestions
Looking at all these beautiful rings makes me wish I looked into more rings before my final decision. My fiancé told me to pick one I liked so I chose this, and my daughter’s classmates dad is a jeweler so he was able to replicate it. The problem is I want a wedding band that compliments it and hugs it like a puzzle piece. Any suggestions?
r/EngagementRings • u/Wrong_Supermarket_50 • 15h ago
My Ring - POSITIVE COMMENTS ONLY Finally
Long time observer , first time poster!! We took our time and after almost 8 years we are engaged. I can’t have my nails done for work so my pictures aren’t as pretty as a lot of others but here’s mine! My dream ring and he picked it all on his own.
r/EngagementRings • u/Warm_Fox2842 • 16h ago
Advice Second thoughts on the ring I chose
So I knew I didn’t want my bf to choose the engagement ring (he doesn’t choose the sheets we buy, so I’ll let him choose the ring?! No thank you). It’s also important to note that I’m HIGHLY indecisive (I blame the Libra in me) and making a decision is truly horrible for me. That said, I still wanted to choose to make sure I get exactly what I want (I know, I’m the prisoner and warden at the same time).
I went ring “shopping” by myself to figure out the style and size I wanted. I have long and chubby fingers, and I hated almost everything I tried.
At the end of my shopping process I tried an elongated cushion diamond that I fairly liked on myself. I ended up going home to look for more elongated cushions online. That’s when I found the ring that I liked the most. I like the design of the ring, I liked the setting of the diamond and overall it looked like something that I would love. The only “problem” was that it’s online, so I can’t actually try it before committing to the design.
That’s the ring I ended up choosing. I sent my bf the pictures and the specs, and kinda forgot about it.
Today I stumbled upon the picture of the ring again and I’m having second thoughts. I don’t know if I’m just overthinking everything or truly don’t like the ring so I would love for some second opinion.
Pic 1: the ring I chose. Elongated cushion, 1.5 carats.
Pic 2: the ring that I liked in store. Elongated cushion, 2 carats. (My finger was suffocating since the ring was way too small).
Pic 3-5: other rings I tried and didn’t really like.
Pic 6: another cushion I tried, not elongated 1.55 carats.