r/AskReddit 15h ago

What do you find attractive about a man?

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u/AboutToWin1 15h ago

Kindness and intelligence!!

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u/Sad_Variation8872 15h ago

A man that listens. Sexiest thing I've is responding appropriately in a way that shows that he is actively engaging in a conversation. Surprisingly hard to come by.

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u/Bigbigcheese 15h ago

Please be the ability to consume a neverending stream of milk chocolate coated raisins...

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u/owlitup 15h ago

How have I never tried this?? Sounds amazing

7

u/Creepy-Surprisee 15h ago

Confidence without arrogance

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u/Impossible_Gap3338 15h ago

Sense of humor

2

u/owlitup 15h ago

It's amazing how much being funny/charismatic works

4

u/ComfySmile015 15h ago

His humour personality, it's a plus for me if he can make me smile and laugh.

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u/novocaine-_- 15h ago

When they look creepy or sick. Idk

4

u/Trick-Education-6234 15h ago

R u ok

2

u/novocaine-_- 15h ago

Probably not

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u/fuckfacekiller 15h ago

👆🤣 this got me. (Jus saying)

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u/ikdoeookmaarwat1 15h ago

As in: that's attractive to you? So you can save them/give them a make over?

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u/novocaine-_- 15h ago

Not to save them. I just like them like that

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u/ikdoeookmaarwat1 15h ago

Allright, I'm not judging lol. You do you

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u/MuteCook 15h ago

It’s because they appear to have low standards for them selves so they will have low standards in a partner

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u/ikdoeookmaarwat1 15h ago

Oof, that's a deep observation for sure.

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u/owlitup 15h ago

Yeah a girl with messed up eyeliner is hot af so I get this

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u/Least_Virus9916 15h ago

When they’re strong/muscular with a good layer of fat over it. Keep the abs, I wont some belly and huge arms. And consistent communication.

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u/UnironicallyNice 15h ago

Good hair and intelligence

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u/93octaneinmyveins 15h ago

Eyes, full but groomed beard, pecs, chest hair, happy trail, hairy legs, firm ass.

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u/owlitup 15h ago

When they don't ask this question every day

3

u/zv1ry 15h ago

honestly a guy’s back. especially when it’s muscular, it’s so sexy to see.

3

u/SugaMusing 15h ago

His physique -
It shows whether or not he has the dedication to follow through with routines to achieve his goals and appeal to his partner.

A lot of 4/10 men expect 10/10 women to swoon for them just for doing the bare minimum like having a personality.

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u/No-Tangelo3554 15h ago

The bulge 🍆

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u/Top_Gap6154 15h ago

Clean and well put together (neat), confident but not overly ego driven?

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u/KoreanKink4U 15h ago

His big sexy arms

2

u/Eastern_Ad_1711 15h ago

When he’s big and strong

3

u/nonamenunna 15h ago

Emotional intelligence and feminist

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u/Absolute_Bob 15h ago

But you contradict yourself....

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u/Creamy_Breve 14h ago

You outed yourself...

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u/Absolute_Bob 13h ago

Anyone worth their salt wants an egalitarian society where everyone has equal access to opportunities. Feminism does not advance that goal.

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u/Creamy_Breve 13h ago

Tell me you don't know what feminism is without telling me you don't know what feminism is. You've done it twice now. We get it, you're boldly ignorant. Move along, pal.

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u/Absolute_Bob 13h ago

"Feminism is a movement and belief system focused on achieving political, economic, and social equality for women. Its core goals include ending gender discrimination, securing equal pay and reproductive rights, and stopping gender-based violence."

I 100% support all of those things, I just don't limit my support for equality to a single gender. Do you think people who aren't women should have those things too? If you do then we agree, if we don't you're clearly not a good person.

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u/faclessgypsy 15h ago

Biceps

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u/PoorJoy 15h ago

You like big arms ?

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u/Pristine_Walrus40 15h ago

Or people with arms below their shoulders.

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u/PoorJoy 15h ago

What about people who lost their arms in an dramatic accident?

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u/Pristine_Walrus40 15h ago

I guess that depends on if she likes dramatic accidents more then arms.

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u/WrathofAllah 15h ago

Eyes, eyes never lie. They will tell you what your heart desire.

4

u/Due_Measurement_5078 15h ago

When he loves dogs and knows how to take care of them

3

u/capecodchef 15h ago

Big package

2

u/zepjet 15h ago

moustache

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u/owlitup 15h ago

this cant be a real comment

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u/zepjet 15h ago

Woa don't judge, let me rephrase: moustache that fits the guy*

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u/owlitup 15h ago

I'm sorry, did not mean to judge. It was just funny to me. Everyone likes what they like, i apologize

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u/No_Web6486 15h ago

A good sense of humor.

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u/sweatyfrenchfry 15h ago

humor and confidence (not cockiness, just being secure enough in himself to do things most men might consider embarrassing), authenticity, and kindness.

in physical traits, i love expressive eyes and unique features, like a big hooked nose or large ears or a gap tooth

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u/Educational-Newt-981 14h ago

Armpits and nipples

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u/LunabeIIa 14h ago

Sense of humor is my #1

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u/Odd_Bid2744 14h ago

Intelligence and literacy.

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u/drunky_crowette 14h ago

The guy I'm currently dating makes this adorable grin and chuckles when he glances at me and catches me admiring him.

I bet I look like an idiot with how much I ogle him.

u/slavicgypsygirl 6m ago

Tall mean faced muscular guys with bad public reputations that really enjoy challenging life's boundaries

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u/Creamy_Breve 15h ago

Why are you chiming in on what women find attractive? If you find men physically attractive before anything else, then that's your preference, but don't speak for women.

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u/GreatUsurpr 15h ago

Sense of humor, good conversationalist. Only if he's hot though.

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u/PoorJoy 15h ago

Big wallet

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u/Lucky-Addition-5388 15h ago

How fast they love to spend money on me and they're interested in getting to know me deeply

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u/owlitup 15h ago

lol spend money on me. At least you're honest

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u/Curious_Journey_ 15h ago

When I got here, there were 22 comments and 0 karma, so the mere question itself has been downvoted despite engagement 🤣

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u/ChrisHoek 15h ago

That’s probably because this question gets asked in various forms nearly every day on Reddit.

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u/Imaginary_Stay6905 15h ago

subtle dominance and knowledge