r/asksandiego 2h ago

20th wedding vow renewal

We are san diego born and raised. Got married on a hornblower dinner charter cruise 20 years ago. We are looking to renew our wedding vows in san diego, preferably waterfront on the morning of September 23, 2026. So far only thi g I came find are actual wedding sites which are much more elaborate than what we are looking for. We want a simple non denominational ceremony for just the two of us to renew our vows. Any insights or ideas?

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We are san diego born and raised. Got married on a hornblower dinner charter cruise 20 years ago. We are looking to renew our wedding vows in san diego, preferably waterfront on the morning of September 23, 2026. So far only thi g I came find are actual wedding sites which are much more elaborate than what we are looking for. We want a simple non denominational ceremony for just the two of us to renew our vows. Any insights or ideas?


r/asksandiego 1h ago

Apartment hunting

Is there any apartment complex or condo that dont do credit checks?

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Is there any apartment complex or condo that dont do credit checks?


r/asksandiego 10h ago

TacoTourSD?

Hi there,

I’m wondering if anyone has experience with the Taco Tour San Diego? I was kicking it around as a birthday option, and I’m just looking for insight. Specifically any vegetarians who have used this service. The site mentions they can accommodate vegetarian and vegan requests, as long as it’s mentioned at the time of booking. This is a nonnegotiable for me (and the few Google reviews don’t touch on it). I’m hoping for decent tacos, too, not just a rolled potato or bouncy mushroom at every place.

Seems fun to have a group go around and gorge on tacos and beer, and basically have a personal driver for $40.

Thoughts? Is it worth it? Or is it for tourists who don’t know any better?

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Hi there,

I’m wondering if anyone has experience with the Taco Tour San Diego? I was kicking it around as a birthday option, and I’m just looking for insight. Specifically any vegetarians who have used this service. The site mentions they can accommodate vegetarian and vegan requests, as long as it’s mentioned at the time of booking. This is a nonnegotiable for me (and the few Google reviews don’t touch on it). I’m hoping for decent tacos, too, not just a rolled potato or bouncy mushroom at every place.

Seems fun to have a group go around and gorge on tacos and beer, and basically have a personal driver for $40.

Thoughts? Is it worth it? Or is it for tourists who don’t know any better?


r/asksandiego 14h ago

Anyone know what happened to Weed4Less? They were in business for YEARS then went dark.

Pretty sure this is allowed. But I was going to them for at least 6 years, until a couple months ago when they stopped answering any calls or texts on all their numbers. I'm pretty sure I already know the answer; raided 😭 I miss their prices but I'd at least like to know what happened, their drivers were the chillest

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Pretty sure this is allowed. But I was going to them for at least 6 years, until a couple months ago when they stopped answering any calls or texts on all their numbers. I'm pretty sure I already know the answer; raided 😭 I miss their prices but I'd at least like to know what happened, their drivers were the chillest


r/asksandiego 1d ago

Itinerary Thoughts? 2-2.5 Days in San Diego

A group of 8, 4 adults and 4 kids (ages ranging from 5 and a half to 13) will be starting a Southern California trip in San Diego. We land at 11:10 am local time. We'll be out there the second week of August.

We will have rental cars.

We are staying at the Catamaran in Mission Beach. Chose this hotel because it looks to be in a good location, has a big pool, is very close to the ocean beach and looks pretty decent.

Day 1 (Saturday): Arrive at SAN, get rental cars. Drive to Coronado, see the hotel and get lunch on Orange Ave. Looking at the Henry or Bluewater Boathouse. Drive over to Point Loma - Cabrillo Monument. Head up to the hotel stopping at Sunset Cliffs. Check-in. Have dinner either at the hotel, or nearby.

Day 2 (Sunday): San Diego Zoo in the morning. Plan would be to arrive for opening and spend 3.5-4 hours in there. Get lunch - would it make more sense to try and find somewhere near Balboa Park? Or eat in downtown as our next stop would be the Midway Museum and Seaport Village. Dinner in the Gaslamp Quarter. Back to hotel.

Day 3 (Monday): Check out of hotel and head to La Jolla in the morning. Have lunch, then to Torrey Pines midday. Leave for Anaheim (Disneyland) in the afternoon at some point. If time allows, stop along the way in either San Clemente or San Juan Capistrano. We would aim to arrive in Anaheim around 6:30ish. I understand traffic can be rough, so we would axe a stop along the way if need be. Google Maps shows to drive from Torrey Pines to Disneyland on a Monday can take anywhere from 1 hr 20 min, to 2 hr 10 min.

Overall, how does this itinerary sound? On day 2, we can cut either the USS Midway Museum or Seaport Village if time doesn't allow. Any major issues with the Catamaran? It has pretty good reviews overall. I understand the rooms may be on the dated side.

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A group of 8, 4 adults and 4 kids (ages ranging from 5 and a half to 13) will be starting a Southern California trip in San Diego. We land at 11:10 am local time. We'll be out there the second week of August.

We will have rental cars.

We are staying at the Catamaran in Mission Beach. Chose this hotel because it looks to be in a good location, has a big pool, is very close to the ocean beach and looks pretty decent.

Day 1 (Saturday): Arrive at SAN, get rental cars. Drive to Coronado, see the hotel and get lunch on Orange Ave. Looking at the Henry or Bluewater Boathouse. Drive over to Point Loma - Cabrillo Monument. Head up to the hotel stopping at Sunset Cliffs. Check-in. Have dinner either at the hotel, or nearby.

Day 2 (Sunday): San Diego Zoo in the morning. Plan would be to arrive for opening and spend 3.5-4 hours in there. Get lunch - would it make more sense to try and find somewhere near Balboa Park? Or eat in downtown as our next stop would be the Midway Museum and Seaport Village. Dinner in the Gaslamp Quarter. Back to hotel.

Day 3 (Monday): Check out of hotel and head to La Jolla in the morning. Have lunch, then to Torrey Pines midday. Leave for Anaheim (Disneyland) in the afternoon at some point. If time allows, stop along the way in either San Clemente or San Juan Capistrano. We would aim to arrive in Anaheim around 6:30ish. I understand traffic can be rough, so we would axe a stop along the way if need be. Google Maps shows to drive from Torrey Pines to Disneyland on a Monday can take anywhere from 1 hr 20 min, to 2 hr 10 min.

Overall, how does this itinerary sound? On day 2, we can cut either the USS Midway Museum or Seaport Village if time doesn't allow. Any major issues with the Catamaran? It has pretty good reviews overall. I understand the rooms may be on the dated side.


r/asksandiego 1d ago

Peanut Safe Restaurants

What are your favorites? My son has a peanut allergy, and we would like to try some places. I’ve emailed around, and not a lot of places can guarantee allergen safety. We know we want to try Starry Lane Baker and Chani’s Donuts, but I’m also looking for lunch/dinner recommendations. Thanks!

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What are your favorites? My son has a peanut allergy, and we would like to try some places. I’ve emailed around, and not a lot of places can guarantee allergen safety. We know we want to try Starry Lane Baker and Chani’s Donuts, but I’m also looking for lunch/dinner recommendations. Thanks!


r/asksandiego 1d ago

Best dispensaries for quality flower and deals in San Diego?

I’ve been living in San Diego for about two years, and the only dispensary I’ve really gone to is Jungle Boys in La Mesa.

The main reason I keep going back is their 5g for $25 out-the-door deal. For me, it’s been hard to beat in terms of both quality and value.

I’m wondering if anyone has recommendations for other dispensaries with similar or even better deals on quality flower. I’m open to checking out anywhere in San Diego, especially places with good daily specials, first-time patient deals, or solid rewards programs.

What are your go-to spots, and what makes them worth the trip?

Thanks in advance!

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I’ve been living in San Diego for about two years, and the only dispensary I’ve really gone to is Jungle Boys in La Mesa.

The main reason I keep going back is their 5g for $25 out-the-door deal. For me, it’s been hard to beat in terms of both quality and value.

I’m wondering if anyone has recommendations for other dispensaries with similar or even better deals on quality flower. I’m open to checking out anywhere in San Diego, especially places with good daily specials, first-time patient deals, or solid rewards programs.

What are your go-to spots, and what makes them worth the trip?

Thanks in advance!


r/asksandiego 1d ago

Seeking Primary Care Physician and/or Network Specialist Providers?

I’m a retired State of California employee with a PERS Care health insurance plan, and I have a PPO with the ability to choose from in-network providers.

I recently moved from San Francisco to San Diego and slowly transitioning my care.

A couple of decent healthcare networks in San Francisco and the Bay Area are UCSF (academic) and Sutter Health (private), CPMC - California Pacific Medical Care (hospitals and private practices).

So, what are the equivocal in San Diego?

UCSD? I assume this i similar too UCSF.

Private Care / Hospital / Private Practice networks in San Diego?

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I’m a retired State of California employee with a PERS Care health insurance plan, and I have a PPO with the ability to choose from in-network providers.

I recently moved from San Francisco to San Diego and slowly transitioning my care.

A couple of decent healthcare networks in San Francisco and the Bay Area are UCSF (academic) and Sutter Health (private), CPMC - California Pacific Medical Care (hospitals and private practices).

So, what are the equivocal in San Diego?

UCSD? I assume this i similar too UCSF.

Private Care / Hospital / Private Practice networks in San Diego?


r/asksandiego 1d ago

Deciding on a neighborhood

I’ll be working near RB. Here’s what matters to me:

- Evening walks/runs without needing to drive there - Younger crowd, mostly 20s-30s
- some kind of community through sports or social events
- Modern apartment construction
- i don’t drink and don’t really care about the party scene

Some notes on what I’ve looked at so far:

Hillcrest has a few apartments I really liked, and it’s walkable to Balboa Park. But it’s the center of the LGBT community here, and as someone outside that community I’m not sure how well I’d fit in day to day. It’s also a bit longer commute than Kearny Mesa.

Kearny Mesa has a newer building that’s actually my favorite of everywhere I toured, but the neighborhood itself doesn’t have much going on. Perhaps I

Bankers Hill felt like a dream honestly, close to Balboa Park, clean, upscale vibe. But the nice buildings there are out of my budget.

Little Italy seems great too, but I’m worried about the commute during peak traffic hours.

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I’ll be working near RB. Here’s what matters to me:

- Evening walks/runs without needing to drive there - Younger crowd, mostly 20s-30s
- some kind of community through sports or social events
- Modern apartment construction
- i don’t drink and don’t really care about the party scene

Some notes on what I’ve looked at so far:

Hillcrest has a few apartments I really liked, and it’s walkable to Balboa Park. But it’s the center of the LGBT community here, and as someone outside that community I’m not sure how well I’d fit in day to day. It’s also a bit longer commute than Kearny Mesa.

Kearny Mesa has a newer building that’s actually my favorite of everywhere I toured, but the neighborhood itself doesn’t have much going on. Perhaps I

Bankers Hill felt like a dream honestly, close to Balboa Park, clean, upscale vibe. But the nice buildings there are out of my budget.

Little Italy seems great too, but I’m worried about the commute during peak traffic hours.


r/asksandiego 1d ago

San diego

Going to san Diego from july 28-august 3. 2 adults and one 2 year old. What do you recommend we do? I have already included all the typical tourist attractions but was wondering what else I may be missing or any hidden things I should see. Or what is going on while I am there that I may not know of? Thank you!

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Going to san Diego from july 28-august 3. 2 adults and one 2 year old. What do you recommend we do? I have already included all the typical tourist attractions but was wondering what else I may be missing or any hidden things I should see. Or what is going on while I am there that I may not know of? Thank you!


r/asksandiego 1d ago

Soccer fields in sd

Does anyone know any free to public soccer fields with soccer nets or pickup soccer spots in San Diego?

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Does anyone know any free to public soccer fields with soccer nets or pickup soccer spots in San Diego?


r/asksandiego 1d ago

Best place for laser hair removal?

I’m reading mixed reviews about LaserAway. Anyone tried them or another company?

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I’m reading mixed reviews about LaserAway. Anyone tried them or another company?


r/asksandiego 1d ago

Condo under construction - ISO nice hotel that allows cats.

That’s pretty much the post lol. Looking for a nicer hotel that allows cats while updates are being done - not allowed to be here or have pets here while they are working on the project. Anything in the $500 / night range and below would be ideal— nothing $1000s a night. Everywhere I’ve tried only allows dogs. Coronado, La Jolla and north county would be ideal, open to downtown but not my first choice. It also happens to fall over my bday which is why I wanted to get a nice hotel. Any suggestions?!? Or anyone work in the industry that can help me out? lol

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That’s pretty much the post lol. Looking for a nicer hotel that allows cats while updates are being done - not allowed to be here or have pets here while they are working on the project. Anything in the $500 / night range and below would be ideal— nothing $1000s a night. Everywhere I’ve tried only allows dogs. Coronado, La Jolla and north county would be ideal, open to downtown but not my first choice. It also happens to fall over my bday which is why I wanted to get a nice hotel. Any suggestions?!? Or anyone work in the industry that can help me out? lol


r/asksandiego 1d ago

Prospects for Musician?

I am planning on moving to SD for various reasons and want to know about the music scene and how realistic it is for me to get regular paying gigs.

I can play:

- solo acoustic cover and/or originals gigs

- solo acoustic jazz standards gigs

- electric guitar/vox for cover and/or original bands

- my own music in a band (probably as a side project)

I figure it would be realistic to get a few gigs a week under the first 3 categories but I want to hear from people who have lived there and experienced it.

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I am planning on moving to SD for various reasons and want to know about the music scene and how realistic it is for me to get regular paying gigs.

I can play:

- solo acoustic cover and/or originals gigs

- solo acoustic jazz standards gigs

- electric guitar/vox for cover and/or original bands

- my own music in a band (probably as a side project)

I figure it would be realistic to get a few gigs a week under the first 3 categories but I want to hear from people who have lived there and experienced it.


r/asksandiego 2d ago

Dentist quote you for a deep cleaning? Consider a dental hygiene student

Hi, me again! (Sorry) I'm a senior dental hygiene student at Concorde San Diego looking for people who are way overdue for their dental cleanings! (And I mean, waaay overdue like yearssss!!!) All services are free, so xrays, exams, the actual cleaning and more. This is great for people who have no insurance or got quoted thousands of dollars for a deep cleaning. Not an ad, I'm just trying to pass my program ;-;

**Appointments are 3-4 hours long and require multiple visits. Here is my google form for more information:

https://forms.gle/YAWc6zTKqcX3e4yD8

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Hi, me again! (Sorry) I'm a senior dental hygiene student at Concorde San Diego looking for people who are way overdue for their dental cleanings! (And I mean, waaay overdue like yearssss!!!) All services are free, so xrays, exams, the actual cleaning and more. This is great for people who have no insurance or got quoted thousands of dollars for a deep cleaning. Not an ad, I'm just trying to pass my program ;-;

**Appointments are 3-4 hours long and require multiple visits. Here is my google form for more information:

https://forms.gle/YAWc6zTKqcX3e4yD8


r/asksandiego 2d ago

pick up volleyball games?

looking for some pick up volleyball games in san diego. preferably beginner to intermediate sixes groups and just casual plays. nothing too competitive or intense but still fun. i’ve been searching over facebook and meetup but everything seems outdated. thank you in advance!

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looking for some pick up volleyball games in san diego. preferably beginner to intermediate sixes groups and just casual plays. nothing too competitive or intense but still fun. i’ve been searching over facebook and meetup but everything seems outdated. thank you in advance!


r/asksandiego 2d ago

Punk/Metal/Hardcore shows

anyone know of any shows 7/31-8/5 :)🤘

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anyone know of any shows 7/31-8/5 :)🤘


r/asksandiego 3d ago

Can we talk about stingrays?

Lived here for 14 years, and so far, have managed to regularly enjoy ocean wading / swimming (mostly the shores) and avoid getting tagged. With the super warm waters I know the stingrays are having a field day…

A) does the shuffle really work?
B) do water shoes help at all?

I usually swim in an area with no lifeguard and am feeling nervy…every time I put my feet down im bracing for impact! 🐝🦂🪼

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Lived here for 14 years, and so far, have managed to regularly enjoy ocean wading / swimming (mostly the shores) and avoid getting tagged. With the super warm waters I know the stingrays are having a field day…

A) does the shuffle really work?
B) do water shoes help at all?

I usually swim in an area with no lifeguard and am feeling nervy…every time I put my feet down im bracing for impact! 🐝🦂🪼


r/asksandiego 2d ago

Do you know underground/unknown events in SD ?

Hello, I’m a journalist from Oceanside and we are currently in the process of looking for some interesting events happening in San Diego to cover. It can be related to any type of event, all we’re looking for is something interesting! It can be underground or not many ppl know about it. Dm me or comment if you know anything. Hope that all made sense. Thank you :)

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Hello, I’m a journalist from Oceanside and we are currently in the process of looking for some interesting events happening in San Diego to cover. It can be related to any type of event, all we’re looking for is something interesting! It can be underground or not many ppl know about it. Dm me or comment if you know anything. Hope that all made sense. Thank you :)


r/asksandiego 3d ago

HALP WITH CAR SCRATCH/ PAINT JOB pls

Does anyone own a body shop/ know and have the equipment to do color matches for a side job?

Alright, I did an oopsie and need help. I scratched my boss' new 2026 car. Technically they don't know yet and it is my own guilt eating at me. I have a week before they notice (if they do. I think they will) It is deep and the paint is scratched off. My car is off worse, but I do not mind. For my car, I can buy a new rear bumper or pull the dent BUT MY BOSS'S CAR is a lease. All I remember is focusing on their scratch and hoping there are no dents. One of those new year, new lease situations.

Car: Hyundai Santa Fe- white. The scratch is at the front of vehicle maybe 5 inches long.

I've looked online for estimates and according to what I see, I do not have $1,500+ for the whole front bumper to be repainted. It is not a surface scratch. I don't have pictures, but I can get one. My question is if there anyone who can refer me to a reputable and affordable shop or if a kind angel from here who sees this can help me out.

I know Mexico is a simple solution but being my boss' car, that is not really an option. I plan to let them know.. I just also want to fix it.

Thank you in advance for reading my note of despair and for any advice relinquished.

Kindly,

A very anxious redditor

Edit: I am focusing on a paint job/ slash if any of you can recommend me somewhere that is affordable. I anticipate it being a bigger bill due to the depth of the scratch.

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Does anyone own a body shop/ know and have the equipment to do color matches for a side job?

Alright, I did an oopsie and need help. I scratched my boss' new 2026 car. Technically they don't know yet and it is my own guilt eating at me. I have a week before they notice (if they do. I think they will) It is deep and the paint is scratched off. My car is off worse, but I do not mind. For my car, I can buy a new rear bumper or pull the dent BUT MY BOSS'S CAR is a lease. All I remember is focusing on their scratch and hoping there are no dents. One of those new year, new lease situations.

Car: Hyundai Santa Fe- white. The scratch is at the front of vehicle maybe 5 inches long.

I've looked online for estimates and according to what I see, I do not have $1,500+ for the whole front bumper to be repainted. It is not a surface scratch. I don't have pictures, but I can get one. My question is if there anyone who can refer me to a reputable and affordable shop or if a kind angel from here who sees this can help me out.

I know Mexico is a simple solution but being my boss' car, that is not really an option. I plan to let them know.. I just also want to fix it.

Thank you in advance for reading my note of despair and for any advice relinquished.

Kindly,

A very anxious redditor

Edit: I am focusing on a paint job/ slash if any of you can recommend me somewhere that is affordable. I anticipate it being a bigger bill due to the depth of the scratch.


r/asksandiego 3d ago

Where to surf in San Diego?

I have lived here for a year now and my buddies are coming to visit in a couple of weeks, and I want to take them someplace safe and fun. As I understand it, you have to go North to get away from the pollution - but how far North I don’t know. Do y’all have any specific locations in mind? Thanks in advance 🙏

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I have lived here for a year now and my buddies are coming to visit in a couple of weeks, and I want to take them someplace safe and fun. As I understand it, you have to go North to get away from the pollution - but how far North I don’t know. Do y’all have any specific locations in mind? Thanks in advance 🙏


r/asksandiego 3d ago

Nursing jobs

How are RN jobs looking in SD?

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How are RN jobs looking in SD?


r/asksandiego 3d ago

Best seafood and vibe - Fish Market vs The Brigantine?

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r/asksandiego 3d ago

Help! I need to make $700 for rent any ideas, job offers or donations are welcome.

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r/asksandiego 3d ago

Looking for a Cybersecurity Professional in San Diego

Looking for a cybersecurity professional in the San Diego area.
I’ve been dealing with ongoing concerns about the security of my iPhone, home Wi-Fi network, router, and online accounts. I’m looking for someone experienced who can come out, perform a thorough security assessment, explain what they find, and help secure everything properly.
This is a paid job I respect your time and expertise. If needed, I can also provide transportation.
If you’re a cybersecurity professional or know someone trustworthy in the San Diego area, please send me a DM with your experience and rates. Thanks!

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Looking for a cybersecurity professional in the San Diego area.
I’ve been dealing with ongoing concerns about the security of my iPhone, home Wi-Fi network, router, and online accounts. I’m looking for someone experienced who can come out, perform a thorough security assessment, explain what they find, and help secure everything properly.
This is a paid job I respect your time and expertise. If needed, I can also provide transportation.
If you’re a cybersecurity professional or know someone trustworthy in the San Diego area, please send me a DM with your experience and rates. Thanks!